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Feeling out of place

ChristinaCTChristinaCT
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I feel like I don't belong anywhere right now.  That probably sounds silly.  I am looking at my son playing with his dinos & am trying to stay happy & positive for him since he didn't know, but its hard.   He keeps asking why mommy is sad & I just tell him that mommy is having a bad day but I will get better.  

I have friends how have been through this much later in the pregnancy & when I think of that I feel like I don't have the right to be this upset since I wasn't far along at all.  I didn't think this would be so hard on me.  The cramping is starting more & more.  Do you ladies have any pointers on what to expect?  does this take days? TIA for your help :)  I truly appreciate it.

BFP #1 2/8/2008 - Evan born 10/3/2008 via c/s @ 38wks
BFP #2 12/31/2010 (EDD 9/1/11) -- Natrual m/c 1/9/10
BFP #3 12/20/2011 - EDD 8/25/12
u/s 1/6/12 - HB & beautiful bean
A/S 4/2 - It's a Girl!!!
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  • npilcher506npilcher506

    I am so sorry. I know what you mean. I was 7 weeks. We had only known for about 4 weeks but we were so excited. This was our first prenancy and it was all we could think about. I too know people we have lost their little ones much further along and really felt silly when telling the ones who knew about my loss. They were all very supportive. A loss is a loss. It was the hope for a life, the dreams that we had about that life. Those hopes and dreams were there long before my positive HPT, but now we were celebrating the dreams becoming a reality. To have that taken away is a horrible heart breaking event.

    Everyone has a different experience, but I can tell you that my intense cramping lasted about 2 days and then it just stopped. I was so grateful when it did.

    I hope that you are physically and emotionally supported. Best wishes to you.

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