Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss

bad day

It's a terrible day. 2 months ago today I lost my triplets at 20 weeks. Today a co-worker confided in me and said to me that she thinks she may be pregnant, but she really hopes shes not because it would be the worst thing ever.

Really biitch? Of all the people in the world to say that to.

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  • Ugh, I'm so sorry.  Why are people so insensitive?!?

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  • I just mentally throat punched her for you.  That was incredibly insensitve and stupid of her.  I'm so sorry she chose you to vent to (((HUGS)))

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  • i'm am so sorry for her insensitivity!  i actually posted a very long and detailed post on TTCAL about DH's cousin, who last night, after screaming at me that i've torn her family apart (b/c of a stroller) then screamed well i'm pregnant--what am i supposed to do? then told my mil b/c she didn't like our responses that the baby was unexpected and they don't know what they are going to do.    i'll post the link, maybe it'll help.  i got a lot of support for it--and i wish i could go punch her for you (or smack her upside her head).  {{hugs}} (my son robbie died at 21w1d, so i understand!)

    https://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/47470229.aspx

     pm me if you need to talk!!!! 

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  • That is so terrible.  How you didn't lose it on her I will never know.  

    ~Big Hugs~

    I am with the other girls, mental blows were thrown in your honor! 

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