TTC After a Loss 6 Months+

Joining you

Hi ladies,

I'm making the move over to this board, if you'll have me. It's been more than six months since my loss, and we've been having no success. I have PCOS and my cycles have returned to their typical long (60ish days) ways. And I just turned 35 on Christmas Day so the clock has upped its tick-tocking considerably. The RE used those dreaded words at my appointment yesterday: "Advanced Maternal Age"...

We're trying one more unassisted cycle before moving on to medicated cycles. The RE wanted us to start with Femara today (since I saw him on CD2 "Perfect timing!" he said) but neither DH nor I want to feel like we're making a rushed decision about this, especially since the RE's recommendation of medication, Femara, is controversial, so we're going to wait to take the time to do more research about it (and Clomid, although my RE thinks Femara is the better choice for me) before we go that route. It is looking more and more like we'll need some kind of assistance, however. I'm scheduled for a HSG on Monday as a first step anyway. He didn't think bloodwork was necessary, as we already know there's an FSH/LH/Estrogen imbalance based on my cycles and PCOS, he said.

Thanks for reading through all that. I look forward to getting to know everyone here better.

Suze
TTC#1 since May 2009
PCOS * Hypothyroid

Bean - BFP May 26, 2010. EDD Feb 3, 2011. Natural Miscarriage 8w5d - June 29, 2010.
Pumpkin - BFP Feb 8, 2011. EDD Oct 21, 2011. Natural Miscarriage 6w3d - Feb 28, 2011.

Femera started November 2014. 3 rounds, no luck. Moving to IUI.
March 2015: IUI#1 - nope.
May 2015: IUI#2 - nada.
October 2015: IUI#3 - BFP on Nov 2, 2015! *stick baby stick!*

Re: Joining you

  • Welcome to the board. 

    I am now on femara after doing 4 cycles of Clomid.  The clomid completely diminished my linning

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  • Welcome! I have taken Clomid and I now take Femera. Femera has virtually no side effects so it has been a nice change compared to Clomid. Good luck with your decision.
    Started TTC in 2/09. Dx with PCOS in 09/09. BFP on 11/7/09.
    Dx with Ectopic on 12/7/09. Laparoscopy, D&C, and lost my left tube on 12/08/09.
    01/11 = BFP!
    Finnegan Alexander born 9/25/11 via emergency c-section
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    * PG #1 2/26/09: mm/c 4/14/09 at 10w4d | PG #2 8/5/09: mm/c 9/29/09 at 11w3d (boy) * 
    * CP's 4/14/10, 9/1/10, 4/19/11, 5/24/11, 10/14/13, 11/16/13 *
    * Ectopic 1/17/14 - nothing on u/s at 6w4d * 
    * PG #7 BFP 12/21/11 - DD born 8/31/12 * 
    * DH Dx'd with balanced translocation in 2011 *


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  • I am on my last cycle of Clomid and it I don't get KU, my OB will be putting me on Femara and Metformin. GL on your HSG!
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  • I?m sorry you have to be here, but welcome :-)

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    BFP #2 10/19/10 CP 10/27/10 (4w6d) EDD 6/30/11
    BFP #3 5/10/11 Lucas Abelardo born 12/29/11 at 37w3d
    BFP #4 12/10/12 MMC 1/14/13 (9w3d) D&C 1/15/13 EDD 8/16/13 

    BFP #5 8/22/13 Lucia Elizabeth born 4/17/14 at 38w
     
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  • Welcome! GL with the HSG and whichever meds you choose!
    m/c 7/17/10
    Dx: MFI- 3% morph
    IUIs: Gonal-F + Ovidrel + b2b IUI= BFNs
    IVF with ICSI= BFP! EDD 11/25/11
    3/18- Beta #1 452! 3/20- Beta #2 1,026!! 3/27- First u/s- TWINS!
    Our twin boys arrived at 36w5d due to IUGR and a growth discordance

    FET: Medicated FET moved up to 5/23 due to ovulation
    Transferred a 6BB hatched blastocyst- genetically normal female embryo
    BFP! 5/28- 5dp6dt      
    6/1 Beta #1- 223! 6/3 Beta #2- 567!

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  • Thanks everyone. I appreciate the welcome.
    Suze
    TTC#1 since May 2009
    PCOS * Hypothyroid

    Bean - BFP May 26, 2010. EDD Feb 3, 2011. Natural Miscarriage 8w5d - June 29, 2010.
    Pumpkin - BFP Feb 8, 2011. EDD Oct 21, 2011. Natural Miscarriage 6w3d - Feb 28, 2011.

    Femera started November 2014. 3 rounds, no luck. Moving to IUI.
    March 2015: IUI#1 - nope.
    May 2015: IUI#2 - nada.
    October 2015: IUI#3 - BFP on Nov 2, 2015! *stick baby stick!*

  • Welcome to the board. Good luck with your hsg.

    Jenn

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    IVF#1 BFN IVF#2 BFP, loss at 19 weeks FET#1 BFN IVF#3 BFP, m/c FET#2 BFN

    Missing our twins Zachary and Madison, lost at 19 weeks on 11/13/09, edd 4/9/10

    BFP 7/17/10, m/c 7/25/10, edd 3/25/11

    Ectopic, lost left tube 4/20/11, edd 12/6/11

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