First Period After MC

DancinGirl917

Finally got my period today after a little over 5 weeks.  I started to get a little crampy a few days ago so I knew this was coming.  Amazing how my period can give me such weird emotions.

First I was excited that I got it because that means we are only one more period away from trying again.

Then, I had "flashbacks" of my miscarriage with the blood and cramping and I was again reminded that I wasn't pregnant anymore.

I think I will try to take this as a positive that things are slowly getting back to "normal".

npilcher506

I know what you mean. I am wanting for everything to get back to normal, but not at all wanting to deal with the memories of the last time I had that kind of cramping. Good luck to you!

lauren.cus

I'm sorry about the flashbacks this brings, but this is a positive step!!! I never thought I would long for AF but I have to say I'm a tad jealous of you. Definitely allow yourself to grieve the sadness but also see the joy this next step brings.

ekmOC

I think you should try your best to focus on the positive - as you said, this is a sign that your body is recovering and your cycle is getting back on track.  That's a really good thing.  Personally, I am trying to train my mind not to go in a negative direction - when I am starting to think of a detail of my situation that will trigger a "flashback," I have been trying to redirect my thoughts.  

  

clarks415

I know I will have anxiety flashbacks whenever my AF comes. But def focus on the positive of it. Your body is healing, getting back to normal hormone levels. It is a blessing, you are one step closer to where you want to be. GL

erikaja6

I had similar feelings.  I got my period on Monday and was so relieved/happy when it came.  However, I also often felt sad this week.  I didn't expect to have those feelings - but now that I think about it, those feelings also make perfect sense.  Like you, I am trying really hard to focus on the positive. 

Fallon621

Yayyy Congrats on Af returning!  Never thought that I would want something so bad but i desperatly need my body back.  I know its hard and im sure i will be feeling the same things but try to think of it as a positive and that you are on your way to TTC again.  Hvae you taken a peek over at the TTCAL (trying to concieve after a loss) board?  I just introduced my self over there and was wekcomed with open arms even though we are TTA for now.  Just if you do make sure that you lurk and read our blog.