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Need Dr. Help!

I live in Hackensack, NJ  and have been trying to find a doctor that does NOT perform rountine episiotomies on first time deliveries.  I'm not having much luck.  Is there anyone who can recommend a doctor that they know shares the belief of not performing an episiotomy unless it is absolutly necessary?  Thanks for your help!!!

Re: Need Dr. Help!

  • Unfortunately you live in the state with the highest C/S rate in the nation!  40%.  Which means that finding a doctor with low intervention rates will definitely be hard.  Have you considered a midwife?  Their rates of episiotomy and all other interventions are much lower.  If you want a low-intervention birth it will be worth the effort to find the right provider AND hospital or birth center.  (Or homebirth provider, if you were me.).  Good luck, whatever you decide.

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  • Have you considered finding a doula? She will act as your coach and advocate during labor so there will be a level head (not an exhausted woman or a nervous husband) helping you give birth the way you want. You have the right to refuse unnecessary medical procedures.

    A doula may also be able to recommend doctors she has worked well with in the past.

    Good luck in your search



     
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  • Also - I know it's a trek for you, but check out the Brooklyn Birthing Center.
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  • Mitzie,  How do I go about finding a doula?  I've never heard of it before, but willing to do some research. 
    Thanks.

  • check out this link.. it's from The Business of Being Born and it's directories for finding midwives and doulas:

    https://tinyurl.com/6a9tv9

    The site is also a great resource for info about natural birth.
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