My friends have mentioned when I want my shower to be scheduled. My husband asks when we are going to pick out furniture and start decorating the nursery. Honestly, my mind is so far from thinking about this and I'm so nervous to plan these things. I know that we need to order furniture but I still feel like it is so early with so much up in the air. I guess I need to get to a place where I truly believe we are going to be bringing a baby home. Did anyone else feel this way? How did you deal with it? Thanks.