How did you get them to stop?! DD is 17 months and I just had DS last Monday. I know she's a baby and I don't want her to feel jealous or left out, so I let her touch him, kiss him, etc. But then she'll try to pick him up, or grab him by the arm to pull him, and she's just really rough all around. Sometimes she'll take his paci out of his mouth so she can put it back in, and when she does, she slams it in his face. If he's in the swing, she'll swing it super fast/rough, so I'm constantly on top of her. I've even contemplated putting gates around the swing so she can't go near it, but again, I don't want to make her feel left out. Any suggestions?