Pregnant after a Loss

Am I welcome here?

Hi guys! I'm hoping to move out of my birth month board to one maybe more understanding of my situation. I had a neonatal loss at 22 weeks of a twin and remained pregnant with the other until 25 weeks and he survived. I don't know if most of you guys are miscarriage, or if there are people like me on here.

I think we all know a loss changes you, and I'm hoping to find some of that compassion here for all of my stress and worries and sometimes depression or anxiety.

So, am I welcome here?

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Re: Am I welcome here?

  • Of course!

    I'm so sorry for the loss of your twin.

    Congrats and welcome. 

    We have lots of ladies with different circumstances here, from very early losses to very late term losses.

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  • Welcome! How is your preemie boy doing now? Congrats on your new pregnancy as well!
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  • You are absolutely welcome here!!  I'm so sorry for your loss.  Congratulations and welcome to PGaL!
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    Welcome! How is your preemie boy doing now? Congrats on your new pregnancy as well!

    He's great. He got off of oxygen almost 4 months ago, and he's growing great. We are working with a physical therapist to get him up to his chronological age developmentally, but things have been really smooth!

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  • Of course you are welcome.  A loss is a loss--even if you have a take home baby :)  So sorry for your loss.
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  • I am so sorry for your loss. Of course you are welcome here! Like PP said, there are many circumstances that each of us have gone through. I hope your little guy continues to do well and all the best on your current pregnancy!
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  • I am so sorry to hear about the loss of one of your twins, but I am glad to hear your little guy is doing well! Congrats on this pregnancy, I hope you have a H&H 9 months!
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  • You are of course welcome here. I'm sorry for your loss. Congratulations on your pregnancy!
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  • Of course you are welcome, I am so sorry for your loss and I hope you little boy continues to do so well.
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  • You are most certainly welcome here!
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  • Definitely!  I am sorry about your loss and about the lack of understanding on your month board.  I have found that to be true quite often, but the ladies on this board are just great.  Congratulations and welcome!
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  • Congrats & welcome.

    Its been said but of course you are welcome. Losses change you no matter the circumstance.

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  • I am so sorry for your loss - of course you are welcome here! And I'm glad to hear that your little preemie is doing well! Congrats!
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  • Hey, amy.  I am on the same month board as you.  It is so different this time around for me, too.  After the loss everything changed.  I enjoy the July board, but I find myself lurking over here all the time. 
    It is hard to relax sometimes and get into the posts about the finding out the sex, or what bedding to buy when you are so worried about your world falling apart again. 
    Oh, and if I read one more post about people not getting the nt scan because of all the "false positives" I might actually scream, or my eyes will bleed!!!
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