need advice about ex and DS

mommy<3kate

This weekend is suppose to be his weekend where he takes him and then spends time with him until next Saturday. Well he has been dating someone for about a month. Last time he was suppose to pick him up he told me he couldnt cause he was gonna be out of town with her. She lives really far so he stays at her house the whole weekend. He toold me today it was the same thing. That he was gonna be out of town and couldnt pick him up. I was so pissed and said whatever. He offered for his mother to come and pick up DS and her watch him. I have a suspicion she does drugs and I dont want he anywhere near my son. I am so pissed at my ex cause he would rather spend time with new fling. WTF! what would you do? Im going to a lawyer on Monday. I cant deal with this crap anymore.(trying to get sole custody of dc) Would you say something or let it slide?

RenandStimpy

hell no.

GO to the lawyer. You need to file for sole custody, stop talking to him, and go from there. You might not get sole custody since the child is so young. But you can definately get limited visitation, and if he keeps messing up you can go back and fight for sole custody. GL!!!

 

BTW, yes he is a douche bag. But Im sure your aware of that by now. Be happy your not the idiot thats kanoodeling with him. His new chick sounds like a real winner if she knows he has a baby with someone and passes up his son to screw around.

SUwife

That sucks.  He's got other weekends he could spend with the gf, or if he feels they are serious she could come up to where you live for "his" weekend and meet your son.  But he should not be placing his date above his child like that.

sweet*18

get a lawyer immediately and write EVERYTHING down.. even if it doesnt seem relevant do it.. i tried it without the lawyer first and it startd to get ugly and i let it slide.. good luck...