Pregnancy ???

aivi08

Hi I'm haven't been on The Bump for awhile now.  Just started lurking again a few months back when we decide to try for our 2nd child.  My chart is incomplete so it's hard to see what exactly happened.  I just found out I am pregnant yesterday but  still don't know when this happened.  Here is a summary of my chart.  My 1st day of period in Oct. is 10/20/10 we BD 11/2 and 11/3.  According to FF I would o around 11/4.  I had heavy spotting on 11/6 and 11/7.  I spot again 11/12 and 11/13.  I was bleeding from 11/16-11/18 (which i thought would be my period) and w bd on 11/19.  I never got my period in Dec. so my question is was 11/19 the day of concieving?  I thought it was my safety zone since I just had my period and i can't ovulate that early.  What are your thoughts?  I made an appt with my OB already but i won't be able to get in until 1/13/11.  I had some bleeding yesterday and today too which makes me worry. tia.

RhodyMomToBe

how about you link us to your chart?

amandaloren

Sorry no advice... your doctor can estimate a EDD for you. Ask 1st tri

RhodyMomToBe

jefa621:

RhodyMomToBe:

how about you link us to your chart?

LOL.  I didn't even notice there was no link!

Haha, that's the first thing I looked for. I need the visual!!  

brandywine2010

Have you thought about calling your doctor instead of asking a bunch of internet strangers?

brandywine2010

STFU!

natkay02

StarAnnice:

Holy hell, your post is extremely confusing!  Especially with no chart.  Being that you already have a 2 year old, I would think you would have a better idea of your body and TTC. 

That said, with all of the bleeding you've been having, nobody here can answer any of your questions.  You need to go to the OB and get an u/s done to date the baby, providing you haven't m/c.  Call the doc back, explain to them that you've had a lot of bleeding, they should schedule an u/s, or at least labs to check your betas ASAP.

GL, and if your pg is viable, 1st tri is waiting.  If you have lost the baby, I'm sorry for your loss, the mc/pl board is a great place, as well as PAL. 

This. Good luck, OP. 

MandyBrownNoser

jesus christ you people are obnoxious.

OP- For now just go with you are pregnant.  Even if you are having a m/c (which the bleeding could be) there is nothing you can do to stop it and nothing you did to cause it so don't beat yourself up over it.

Make note of the bleeding and dates and take it to your appointment on the 13th and hopefully they'll be able to sort everything out. 

ames243567

MandyBrownNoser:

jesus christ you people are obnoxious.

OP- For now just go with you are pregnant.  Even if you are having a m/c (which the bleeding could be) there is nothing you can do to stop it and nothing you did to cause it so don't beat yourself up over it.

Make note of the bleeding and dates and take it to your appointment on the 13th and hopefully they'll be able to sort everything out. 

  This!!  Only your DR. will be able to help you figure it out!

aivi08

wow some of you are really mean...maybe this is why there are so many lurkers.

thanks ames & mandy. i'm waiting for the nurse to call me back.

and for the person that said i should know my body...the 1st pregnancy i got pregnant right away and this time around it's my 2nd cycle so i have no idea what the F is going on.

 thanks again for your response!

 

natkay02

aivi08:

wow some of you are really mean...maybe this is why there are so many lurkers.

thanks ames & mandy. i'm waiting for the nurse to call me back.

and for the person that said i should know my body...the 1st pregnancy i got pregnant right away and this time around it's my 2nd cycle so i have no idea what the F is going on.

 thanks again for your response!

 

Look, your post was pretty confusing and one of your first sentences announced that you are pregnant, on an internet message board of women who are trying to get pregnant. 

I sincerely hope everything is okay and wish you the best of luck. 

MandyBrownNoser

StarAnnice:

MandyBrownNoser:

jesus christ you people are obnoxious.

OP- For now just go with you are pregnant.  Even if you are having a m/c (which the bleeding could be) there is nothing you can do to stop it and nothing you did to cause it so don't beat yourself up over it.

Make note of the bleeding and dates and take it to your appointment on the 13th and hopefully they'll be able to sort everything out. 

Waiting that long, if you are m/c'ing is very dangerous. 

Again, call your ob back, explain the situation, and make sure they, at least, send you out for betas. 

I hate to pull this card, but this is coming from someone who actually HAS been pg 3 times, and m/c'd once.  It is VERY important that you expain to your OB what is going on regarding the bleeding.

I've been pregnant numerous times and m/c'd numerous times.  But thanks for the schooling. 

jdmom03

StarAnnice:

aivi08:

wow some of you are really mean...maybe this is why there are so many lurkers.

thanks ames & mandy. i'm waiting for the nurse to call me back.

and for the person that said i should know my body...the 1st pregnancy i got pregnant right away and this time around it's my 2nd cycle so i have no idea what the F is going on.

 thanks again for your response!

 

Awe, you almost hurt my e-feelings.  You are a grown woman!  Adult enough to have children, you should know to call your doctor is you're bleeding and could possibly be m/c'ing.  Rocket science, it is not.  Most women on this board have never even been pg and can't answer your questions, hence it 'Trying to Get Pregnant".  Call your doctor.

As for the comment towards me, in particular.  Honey, I got pg with DS1 on my first cycle, as well.  I also made the effort, while trying for DS2 to chart, and know what was going on with my body, even before we started trying.  It's all about educating yourself. 

I agree i also  conceived DD with the first cycle and i'm charting with #2, but you really don't think people wouldn't be mad at this post when we've been trying for Months, some even years and you come on here asking US about Pregnancy Symptoms when a lot of people on here haven't even had their first baby. You've got to be out of your mind, you were deff blindsided when you posted here because this is most definitely a 1st Trimester Post!

KBaker421

MandyBrownNoser:

jesus christ you people are obnoxious.

OP- For now just go with you are pregnant.  Even if you are having a m/c (which the bleeding could be) there is nothing you can do to stop it and nothing you did to cause it so don't beat yourself up over it.

Make note of the bleeding and dates and take it to your appointment on the 13th and hopefully they'll be able to sort everything out. 

THIS

liz_t

MandyBrownNoser:

jesus christ you people are obnoxious.

About as obnoxious a those who only post on TTGP  to call everyone names....

picklesx

jefa621:

Honestly I don't care to look.  I wouldn't have even posted this here.  1st tri is waiting...

Yeah, fo' serious.

natkay02

_Brianna_H:

MandyBrownNoser:

jesus christ you people are obnoxious.

About as obnoxious a those who only post on TTGP  to call everyone names....

Word. 

Serendipitie

_Brianna_H:

MandyBrownNoser:

jesus christ you people are obnoxious.

About as obnoxious a those who only post on TTGP  to call everyone names....

Ya think?

heather_09_15_07

StarAnnice:

MandyBrownNoser:

jesus christ you people are obnoxious.

OP- For now just go with you are pregnant.  Even if you are having a m/c (which the bleeding could be) there is nothing you can do to stop it and nothing you did to cause it so don't beat yourself up over it.

Make note of the bleeding and dates and take it to your appointment on the 13th and hopefully they'll be able to sort everything out. 

Waiting that long, if you are m/c'ing is very dangerous. 

Again, call your ob back, explain the situation, and make sure they, at least, send you out for betas. 

I hate to pull this card, but this is coming from someone who actually HAS been pg 3 times, and m/c'd once.  It is VERY important that you expain to your OB what is going on regarding the bleeding.

Wow. You are quite the a$$hole.

And for whoever said Mandy only comes here to call names or however you put it, she actually gave the OP advice.

SkyBee

_Brianna_H:

MandyBrownNoser:

jesus christ you people are obnoxious.

About as obnoxious a those who only post on TTGP  to call everyone names....

Agree. Douche.

brookelynpaisley

Really? Your doctor will be able to age your pregnancy. How's about we stop focusing less on when it happened and be happy that you're pregnant. Gallop along to 1st tri now.

ETA: Didn't read past the pregnancy announcement. Hope everything is OK, OP, but really common sense would tell you to call your doctor if you got a +HPT and then started bleeding.

reinstone

brookelynpaisley:

Really? Your doctor will be able to age your pregnancy. How's about we stop focusing less on when it happened and be happy that's you're pregnant. Gallop along to 1st tri now.

This.  Finally, someone in this post makes sense.

tblauvelt

reinstone:

brookelynpaisley:

Really? Your doctor will be able to age your pregnancy. How's about we stop focusing less on when it happened and be happy that's you're pregnant. Gallop along to 1st tri now.

This.  Finally, someone in this post makes sense.

I'm glad I read all the way to the bottom because this what what I was thinking all along. Congrats, OP but move along to 1st tri and enjoy yo'self.

Serendipitie

SkyBee:

_Brianna_H:

MandyBrownNoser:

jesus christ you people are obnoxious.

About as obnoxious a those who only post on TTGP  to call everyone names....

Agree. Douche.

Nice. Hello pot, meet kettle.

liz_t

Serendipitie:

SkyBee:

_Brianna_H:

MandyBrownNoser:

jesus christ you people are obnoxious.

About as obnoxious a those who only post on TTGP  to call everyone names....

Agree. Douche.

Nice. Hello pot, meet kettle.

Not really. Skybee is often kind & funny on TTGP. I think that you missed the point.

Serendipitie

_Brianna_H:

Serendipitie:

SkyBee:

_Brianna_H:

MandyBrownNoser:

jesus christ you people are obnoxious.

About as obnoxious a those who only post on TTGP  to call everyone names....

Agree. Douche.

Nice. Hello pot, meet kettle.

Not really. Skybee is often kind & funny on TTGP. I think that you missed the point.

No, I think you missed the point. I love how very few of you are actually addressing the OP and her fears, and instead of biitching about how she shouldn't be posting here but instead on 1st Tri. The amount of time you people discuss the "correct" board to be posting on is insane. I don't know much about Skybee, but I do know that while Mandy isn't puppies and rainbows, she speaks the truth as well as gives good advice. Just because you don't want to hear it doesn't make her a douche. She might be a biitch, but she's not a douche.

liz_t

Serendipitie:

No, I think you missed the point. I love how very few of you are actually addressing the OP and her fears, and instead of biitching about how she shouldn't be posting here but instead on 1st Tri. The amount of time you people discuss the "correct" board to be posting on is insane. I don't know much about Skybee, but I do know that while Mandy isn't puppies and rainbows, she speaks the truth as well as gives good advice. Just because you don't want to hear it doesn't make her a douche. She might be a biitch, but she's not a douche.

Seeing as the original point was made by me, that is hard to do.

In the 5 months that I have been posting here, I have yet to see even one post by Mandy that did not include either a nasty comment about the TTGP board as a whole or about an individual poster. Not one. Most people who post on TTGP contribute to the board in other ways besides just posting to be bitc*y.

While Mandy may be great (on other bump boards), no one would know it solely by reading her posts on TTGP. 

All that being said, I don't think that Mandy gives a crap about whether I or anyone else care for her posts or not, so I wonder why you do.

She finds TTGP obnoxious (as she has stated MANY times) and I find her constantly posting that opinion annoying. It's a public message board, I am sure that Mandy will continue to remind us how ridiculous she thinks we all are and I'll reply if I want to. Get over it. 

 

Serendipitie

Well, maybe I don't know much about TTGP, because I also find most of the posts to be completely obnoxious as well. I guess the difference between me and Mandy is I usually just keep my mouth shut and go elsewhere. As I said several times, I don't read here much, but I don't think Mandy is any different on any other board. She voices her opinion the same everywhere and most of the time someone gets their panties in a bunch over what she says. I for one appreciate her dose of realism, because I stopped getting my e-feelings hurt a long time ago. Go ahead and post what you want because it is a public message board, (which also means Mandy has as much right to say what she wants as you do) but realize that for every person who thinks Mandy is annoying, there is another person who thinks you are annoying too.

liz_t

Serendipitie:

Well, maybe I don't know much about TTGP, because I also find most of the posts to be completely obnoxious as well. But you don't post here every other day to state that point like Mandy does.  I guess the difference between me and Mandy is I usually just keep my mouth shut and go elsewhere. Exactly - if you don't like it here, why post here? . As I said several times, I don't read here much, but I don't think Mandy is any different on any other board. This post is the first time I have even seen an offering of advice. Every other post is just her telling everyone here how horrible she thinks they are.  She voices her opinion the same everywhere and most of the time someone gets their panties in a bunch over what she says. I for one appreciate her dose of realism, because I stopped getting my e-feelings hurt a long time ago. I don't have e-feelings. No one is hurting anything of mine. I just find it annoying to post for no other reason than to call names. My panties are smooth and unbunched thank you very much.  Go ahead and post what you want because it is a public message board, (which also means Mandy has as much right to say what she wants as you do - that was my earlier point - thank you for reiterating) but realize that for every person who thinks Mandy is annoying, there is another person who thinks you are annoying too. No problem - that doesn't bother me, but I doubt this point.

MandyBrownNoser

_Brianna_H:

Serendipitie:

Well, maybe I don't know much about TTGP, because I also find most of the posts to be completely obnoxious as well. But you don't post here every other day to state that point like Mandy does.  I guess the difference between me and Mandy is I usually just keep my mouth shut and go elsewhere. Exactly - if you don't like it here, why post here? . As I said several times, I don't read here much, but I don't think Mandy is any different on any other board. This post is the first time I have even seen an offering of advice. Every other post is just her telling everyone here how horrible she thinks they are.  She voices her opinion the same everywhere and most of the time someone gets their panties in a bunch over what she says. I for one appreciate her dose of realism, because I stopped getting my e-feelings hurt a long time ago. I don't have e-feelings. No one is hurting anything of mine. I just find it annoying to post for no other reason than to call names. My panties are smooth and unbunched thank you very much.  Go ahead and post what you want because it is a public message board, (which also means Mandy has as much right to say what she wants as you do - that was my earlier point - thank you for reiterating) but realize that for every person who thinks Mandy is annoying, there is another person who thinks you are annoying too. No problem - that doesn't bother me, but I doubt this point.

I actually post quite often and mostly advice.  But can you seriously not see how ridiculous the knee jerk reaction to anything pregnancy related here is?  At all?  There are plenty of people here who have been or are pregnant.  And just as many who've had miscarriages so the "no one here can answer your question- go to 1st tri" response doesn't make much sense.

And I think you'd be surprised at how large my fan club is. 

liz_t

MandyBrownNoser:

I actually post quite often and mostly advice.  But can you seriously not see how ridiculous the knee jerk reaction to anything pregnancy related here is?  At all?  There are plenty of people here who have been or are pregnant.  And just as many who've had miscarriages so the "no one here can answer your question- go to 1st tri" response doesn't make much sense.

And I think you'd be surprised at how large my fan club is. 

Excuse me, Lady Gaga - Your "fan club"?? Get over yourself. I am not at all worried or concerned by your internet "fan club". 

Also, my point has nothing to do with TTGP posters preoccupations - I don't care and I like it here. What I don't understand is only posting here to talk sh*t. Just don't post if you don't like it.

I have been posting here regularly for 5 months and this thread is the only time I have seen you give advice -albeit only after calling everyone "obnoxious". Normally you are just calling people names. If this board is so annoying to you, why not just stay off of it?

MandyBrownNoser

_Brianna_H:

Excuse me, Lady Gaga - Your "fan club"?? Get over yourself. I am not at all worried or concerned by your internet "fan club". 

 

reinstone

::comes out from hiding in the corner::

I took it as more of a beep beep than a we don't know.

::goes back to lurking in the shadows::

Serendipitie

_Brianna_H:

Excuse me, Lady Gaga - Your "fan club"?? Get over yourself. I am not at all worried or concerned by your internet "fan club". 

Also, my point has nothing to do with TTGP posters preoccupations - I don't care and I like it here. What I don't understand is only posting here to talk sh*t. Just don't post if you don't like it.

I have been posting here regularly for 5 months and this thread is the only time I have seen you give advice -albeit only after calling everyone "obnoxious". Normally you are just calling people names. If this board is so annoying to you, why not just stay off of it?

Just like it applies to TTC, 5 months is not a long time. I still call this place GP, as it was called before the name change shiit show. I will crawl back into my hole because apparently I'm not welcome here. I'm soooo heartbroken 

liz_t

Serendipitie:

_Brianna_H:

Excuse me, Lady Gaga - Your "fan club"?? Get over yourself. I am not at all worried or concerned by your internet "fan club". 

Also, my point has nothing to do with TTGP posters preoccupations - I don't care and I like it here. What I don't understand is only posting here to talk sh*t. Just don't post if you don't like it.

I have been posting here regularly for 5 months and this thread is the only time I have seen you give advice -albeit only after calling everyone "obnoxious". Normally you are just calling people names. If this board is so annoying to you, why not just stay off of it?

Just like it applies to TTC, 5 months is not a long time. I still call this place GP, as it was called before the name change shiit show. I will crawl back into my hole because apparently I'm not welcome here. I'm soooo heartbroken 

Oh, so you mean she has been positively contributing to this board for the OTHER 7 months of the year (or in previous years)? Figures that I would pick the "bad" five months to be on here.

(ETA: Because 5 consecutive months worth of posts don't represent anything... right?)

Where in this thread (or any other thread) did someone tell you that you aren't welcome? You disagreed with my comment and I responded in kind. Seems a tad overly dramatic, IMO. 

MandyBrownNoser

_Brianna_H:

Serendipitie:

_Brianna_H:

Excuse me, Lady Gaga - Your "fan club"?? Get over yourself. I am not at all worried or concerned by your internet "fan club". 

Also, my point has nothing to do with TTGP posters preoccupations - I don't care and I like it here. What I don't understand is only posting here to talk sh*t. Just don't post if you don't like it.

I have been posting here regularly for 5 months and this thread is the only time I have seen you give advice -albeit only after calling everyone "obnoxious". Normally you are just calling people names. If this board is so annoying to you, why not just stay off of it?

Just like it applies to TTC, 5 months is not a long time. I still call this place GP, as it was called before the name change shiit show. I will crawl back into my hole because apparently I'm not welcome here. I'm soooo heartbroken 

Oh, so you mean she has been positively contributing to this board for the OTHER 7 months of the year (or in previous years)? Figures that I would pick the "bad" five months to be on here.

Where in this thread (or any other thread) did someone tell you that you aren't welcome? You disagreed with my comment and I responded in kind. Seems a tad overly dramatic, IMO. 

One- I've been on this board from the first day it was created.

Two- you need to reach around and remove that stick that is firmly stuck up your ass.  jesus. 

liz_t

MandyBrownNoser:

_Brianna_H:

Serendipitie:

_Brianna_H:

Excuse me, Lady Gaga - Your "fan club"?? Get over yourself. I am not at all worried or concerned by your internet "fan club". 

Also, my point has nothing to do with TTGP posters preoccupations - I don't care and I like it here. What I don't understand is only posting here to talk sh*t. Just don't post if you don't like it.

I have been posting here regularly for 5 months and this thread is the only time I have seen you give advice -albeit only after calling everyone "obnoxious". Normally you are just calling people names. If this board is so annoying to you, why not just stay off of it?

Just like it applies to TTC, 5 months is not a long time. I still call this place GP, as it was called before the name change shiit show. I will crawl back into my hole because apparently I'm not welcome here. I'm soooo heartbroken 

Oh, so you mean she has been positively contributing to this board for the OTHER 7 months of the year (or in previous years)? Figures that I would pick the "bad" five months to be on here.

Where in this thread (or any other thread) did someone tell you that you aren't welcome? You disagreed with my comment and I responded in kind. Seems a tad overly dramatic, IMO. 

One- I've been on this board from the first day it was created.

Two- you need to reach around and remove that stick that is firmly stuck up your ass.  jesus. 

1.) Who gives a f*ck? Yay for you - you have an internet fan club and have been posting for years. Gold star for you.

2.) Just because I find you irritating and your posts on TTGP pointless doesn't mean I have a stick up my ass.  Aren't you the one always saying that you could care less when people write that you are a b*tch. Well, why not do that and care less about this?

 

 

 

MandyBrownNoser

_Brianna_H:

1.) Who gives a f*ck? Yay for you - you have an internet fan club and have been posting for years. Gold star for you.

2.) Just because I find you irritating and your posts on TTGP pointless doesn't mean I have a stick up my ass.  Aren't you the one always saying that you could care less when people write that you are a b*tch. Well, why not do that and care less about this?

 

 

 

You are in desperate need of a sarcasm meter.

Fan club? Sarcasm.

Not welcome on the board? Sarcasm.

Stick up your ass- not sarcasm at all.   

liz_t

MandyBrownNoser:

_Brianna_H:

1.) Who gives a f*ck? Yay for you - you have an internet fan club and have been posting for years. Gold star for you.

2.) Just because I find you irritating and your posts on TTGP pointless doesn't mean I have a stick up my ass.  Aren't you the one always saying that you could care less when people write that you are a b*tch. Well, why not do that and care less about this?

 

 

 

You are in desperate need of a sarcasm meter.

Fan club? Sarcasm.

Not welcome on the board? Sarcasm.

Stick up your ass- not sarcasm at all.   

I got the sarcasm, but thank you. However, there is a tiny bit of truth behind your fan club statement - you kind of believe it.

I am by no means a puppies & rainbows poster and truly appreciate the snark here. I wouldn't post here if I didn't like that about this board. But you don't seem to like this board at all and only seem to post to irritate everyone here. Why?

liz_t

Also, I can't wait for your eventual "OMG, you guys!! Look at these stupid bishes on TTGP" post on BOTB.

MandyBrownNoser

_Brianna_H:

asm, but thank you. However, there is a tiny bit of truth behind your fan club statement - you kind of believe it. 

I am by no means a puppies & rainbows poster and truly appreciate the snark here. I wouldn't post here if I didn't like that about this board. But you don't seem to like this board at all and only seem to post to irritate everyone here. Why?

Ummmm... no. I don't have a fan club, at all.  And I'm okay with it.

So do you open every single post on the board?  Every single one, every single day?  If not then how can you conclusively say that I only post to irritate everyone here.

And do you honestly think I give a flying fuuck if people are irritated?  Hardly.