Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss

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  • I am SO sorry. If it helps any, I have had one natural m/c and one D&C. Both were very difficult, but in my opinion, physically the D&C was easier b/c it was quick and I knew everything was "out" and it was "over" and I could move on. With my natural m/c I kept having to have my levels checked and u/s's to make sure everything "passed."

    I am sorry you are here again and I feel horrible that you were alone when you got the news.....

    Is there anything they can do to help with the issue of you or DH being a carrier for the chromosome issue?

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  • I am so so sorry you are going through this again (((big hugs)))
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  • Oh, I am so sorry. It breaks my heart to hear stories of women with any loss, and more than one is just so ... unfair? I don't know. It is all unfair.

    Of course facing a D&C is scary, but after having one (that I also had hoped to avoid), I can say that the hardest part of the whole thing is knowing why you are there. Try not to worry too much about it.

    Hang in there.
  • I'm so so sorry for your losses.  Having gone through this with my one and only pregnancy to date, I can't imagine having to face it three times... my heart goes out to you.

    I had a D&C and it was the easiest part of the process.  I hope all goes well.  You're in my thoughts.


  • I'm so sorry. Don't worry a d and c is not that bad. Emotionally it is a bit better. Take care of yourself. Let us know what happens. Hugs
  • I am so sorry. There have been a lot of multiple losses lately. Big hugs to you.

    PS - I believe there is a multiple loss check-in on the TTCAL board if you are interested.

  • I am so sorry.  I just had my third too.  We did a D&C and I was terrified because my first 2 were natural.  It was physically the "easiest" of the three.  If you have any questions about the D&C let me know.  I am so, so sorry.  It just isn't fair.
    7 mm/c
    APS, hetero factor v leiden & MTHFR
    bfp #1 - 12.11.07, edd 8.14.08, mm/c 1.21.08 (10w4d)
    bfp #2 - 4.4.08, edd 12.3.08, mm/c 5.14.08 (11w)
    bfp #3 - 8.3.08, edd 4.15.09, mm/c 9.17.08 (10w)
    bfp #4 - 1.15.09, edd 9.26.09, mm/c 2.16.09 (8w2d)
    bfp #5 - 6.16.09, edd 2.25.10, mm/c 7.23.09 (9w)
    bfp #6 - 8.12.10, edd 4.27.11, mm/c 9.16.10 (8w1d)
    one more try -> bfp #7 - 2.11, our miracle baby boy arrived 10.11
    ttc again -> bfp #8 - 5.3.13, edd 1.13.14, mm/c 5.30.13 (7w3d)
    bfp #9 - 9.23.13, our miracle baby girl arrived 5.29.14

  • I am so sorry for all of your losses :(
  • I am so sorry you are going through this, and hope the best for you.
    m/c#1 07/16/08 (11 weeks), m/c#2 10/10/08 (8 weeks). and then nothing since except every test possible (no answers). IUI#1 and #2: BFNs Super lucky to be buddies with Peetie. Our out of nowhere, surprise DD born 5/29/2011
  • Thanks everyone. It helps to hear your experiences.   

    The appointment is booked for tomorrow. At this point much as I don't want to go to the appointment, I do want it to be over with.
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