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Last cycle for us = BFN :-(

BensWifeBensWife member
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I'm so sad.  This was the last cycle for us.  It was a little early, but I POAS and it was neg.  By now there should have at least been a faint line (not sure what DPO I am), but it was stark white.  Not a doubt in my mind.  It was a BFN.  DH and I have discussed things a lot the last couple weeks, and we decided that if this cycle was a BFN, that it is best to stop TTC #3 and be a family of 4.  I have already been blessed with 2 beautiful boys and the more we have talked about things, the more it seems like with my age, my fertility issues, and our genetic concerns we are done TTC.  I am still very sad and really don't want to stop ttc because I wanted a big family, but there are just too many cons outweighing the pros.  So, all of you TTC, good luck!  I wish you lots and lots of BFPs in 2011!!
Baby #1: 19 cycles, failed IUI, and 1 + IVF 3-5-07
Baby #2: 12 cycles, 1 failed FET, natural miracle but m/c at 9 weeks then another natural miracle that stuck! 9-30-09

TTC #3 - 4 cycles - no BFP yet!
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