2nd Time Mommas... NBR - whats going on?? APS/IUGR/PTL ?

luvpinsanity

So, I have a very tough situation.

With my first son, I had my first OB appt at 16 weeks, and at 19 weeks they noticed he had stopped growing. (IUGR) I had PTL at 24 weeks, dilated to 1cm, and then everything calmed down, went into PTL again at 28 weeks, dilated to 3cm, then everything calmed again... at 32 weeks again, still 3cm, then at 34 weeks i was admitted to hospital for 4 days because my dr. thought I was 5cm (and then I was checked again and I was still 3cm). He was born at 35 weeks, 4 days.

 With my second pregnancy, I was on 17-OPH at 16 weeks, and between 18-22weeks, my daughter went from the 68% to 7% percentile. They ran blood tests and found that one certain antibody was a weak positive, so the MFM Dr. put me on Lovenox because he assumed I had APS.(I can look up the test if anyone is interested)

So, 32 weeks, I go into PTL, and I get switched to Heparin...daughter is born fine at 37 weeks when she develops low AFI...

I get a referral to a hematologist, who does a full blood work on me and says that there is nothing wrong with me from his side of the world. 

The MFM dr. said that the specific antibody test he did can show a negative but still present a risk, and I don't know if the hematologist looked at that. Hematologist is going to rerun tests in three months, but basically he doesn't expect to find anything.

I am wondering if anyone here has had similar problems with 1 or more pregnancies and what they did/found or where I can try to go from here.... If you don't feel comfortable sharing, please message me...