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Goodbye ladies

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There was no heartbeat today.  The baby measured at 6weeks 1day, so I guess it stopped growing one day after my ultrasound last week.  I have tried to stay positive, but deep down I knew that is what I would find out today.  I am so tired of this.  I am having a d&c tomorrow. I really don't think we will ever have a healthy baby.  At this point, we don't even know if we want to try again soon.  I did tell my doctor I think soemthing is wrong with me.  He doesn't think so, but said he would run some blood tests since I have met my maximum on my insurance for the year.  I hope you all have happy and healthy pregnancies. 
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  • leneae10leneae10 member
    Big ((((HUGS)))), Penny.  Take care of yourself, and I pray to see you back here very soon.  I hope you get some answers.
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  • TrickyLittleMinxTrickyLittleMinx
    :( I am so sorry for your loss!!!
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  • shaysmom05shaysmom05 member
    Oh honey I am so so sorry. :( Please take care of yourself and I wish you and your H all the best in whatever you decide. ((HUGS))
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  • lorlei13lorlei13 member
    I am so sorry hun!  I will be keeping you and your DH in my thoughts and prayers.  {{BIG HUGS}}
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  • Jessicaanne_1@yahoo.comJessicaanne_1@yahoo.com
    (((((hugs))))))) I am so so very sorry for your loss. I hope you have a healthy baby very soon. T&P for you and your family.
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  • kaw2723kaw2723
    I'm so sorry. (((HUGS))) But try not to give up hope of having a healthy baby someday. There are several of us in the "3rd times a charm" club, and hopefully someday you will be too. Good luck with the D&C, and even if the blood work doesn't give any answers, try to think positively (I know that's easier said than done).
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  • camdenfaithfulcamdenfaithful

    ((((HUGS))))

    I'm so incredibly sorry.  I've been thinking about you all day.  You will get your take home baby one day, I'm just so sorry this wasn't it.

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  • jennsadye1979jennsadye1979

    I am so sorry for your loss. I hope that testing can bring you some well needed answers, and that you do not lose hope. ((huge hugs))

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  • Aubs0009Aubs0009 member
    I'm so sorry hun ((Huge Hugs))

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  • jen629jen629 member
    I am so so sorry:( many hugs you are in my thoughts and prayers
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  • TheGregory's07TheGregory's07
    Hugs, i am so sorry. 
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  • DowagerCountessofNJDowagerCountessofNJ
    I'm so sorry Penny.  Please take care of yourself.
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  • gracie5107gracie5107 member
    I am so, so sorry to hear this.  Big hugs and my thoughts are with you and your family. 
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  • jeannaqueenajeannaqueena member
    oh honey, sweet lady, I am so sorry.  I wish I could give you a real hug.  (((HUGS))) many many hugs. I am heartbroken for you.
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  • AGFasoAGFaso

    I'm so sorry Penny honey [:*(]

    I hope you get answers ((( hugs )))

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  • kathymariekathymarie member
    I'm so sorry :( ((hugs))
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  • GummybearGummybear
    Oh Penny I am so, so sorry. My heart is just broken for you. I am praying for you and your H. I don't even know what to say except that I am so sorry. It's not fair.
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    I'm so sorry.  Please take care of yourself, and good luck with whatever decision you end up making.
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  • gwennythepoohgwennythepooh member
    I'm so sorry:(
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  • johannaknipjohannaknip
    I'm so sorry for your loss.
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  • HappyLaLa0914HappyLaLa0914 member
    Oh no Penny...I'm so sorry!  I was over her lurking from TTCAL and saw this.  My heart breaks for you and I am sending tons of thoughts and prayers to you and your DH.
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  • HugginAngelHugginAngel
    So sorry hon. :::hugs::::
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  • AppleRidgeAppleRidge member
    My thoughts are with you and your DH.  Take care of yourself.
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  • Ernie52408Ernie52408 member
    I'm so sorry Penny. I hope the bloodwork gives you the answers you need to have a healthy, take home LO.
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  • ColindaPColindaP member
    I'm so sorry for your loss.
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  • cherylanddougcherylanddoug member
    I'm so sorry. ((HUGS)) Please don't give up hope (but I understand why you feel that way now).  Take your time.  I'll keep praying for you.  Even more ((hugs))
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  • ShemicoShemico member

    F*ck.

    *hugs* I'm so sorry hun. I was really hoping for a miricle for you.

    I'm glad your dr. agreed to do some testing. I really hope you get some answers.

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  • erinlovesdaviderinlovesdavid member
    I'm so sorry, Penny. I've been thinking about you today and really holding out hope for good news.  ((big hugs))
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  • rguinn75rguinn75 member
    I am so sorry hun.... ((BIG HUGS)) lots of T&P with you and your DH right now...
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  • WildlandwifeWildlandwife
    I am so sorry to hear this and that you're going through this.  ((big hugs))
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  • shy287shy287 member
    I am so sorry!
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  • sophiemarie18sophiemarie18 member
    I am so sorry for your loss. Please take care of yourself, and I hope you get some answers soon.
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  • jertiejertie member
    Oh Penny, I am so, so sorry.  I was thinking about you this morning for some reason and sending you as many positive thoughts that I could muster.  I wish you the very best going forward.  ((HUGS))

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  • sunflowr0803sunflowr0803 member
    Oh no, Penny! I am so, so very sorry for your loss. This is just not fair. I hope you can get some answers from your b/w tests soon. *BIG HUGS*
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  • KCKSarahKCKSarah member
    Sending positive thoughts your way....I am so, so sorry for your loss.  Take good care of yourself.
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  • Aubs13Aubs13 member
    I'm so sorry.  I'll be thinking of you; I hope you get some answers from the doctor soon.  {{BIG HUGS}}
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  • SonadoraSonadora member
    I'm so sorry for your loss.
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  • uklawgirluklawgirl member
    I am really sorry :(
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  • mdm2137mdm2137
    I am so sorry.

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    I am so sorry. ((((HUGS))))
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