I've had a rough day... NBR

caitlin*marie

I really really really dislike my FI's sister. She is rude to me for no reason when I have been nothing but nice to her. My FI assures me she has never liked any of his former "girlfriends" but I am about to become the mother of her niece/nephew. I literally don't know what to do.

I left some things at their father's house a while back and I went to get them today as they were having a huge garage sale because they are about to sell the house. Well, I get there, and none of my stuff can be found. I ask her where it is and she simply says she doesn't know. It's been less than a week since I saw it all there last time (why oh why didn't I grab it then?!) and she has been the only one in there getting things ready to be sold. I'm betting she sold it all, including a guitar my father bought me for Christmas when I was younger. Needless to say, I am not happy with her. I was fighting feelings of wanting to hit her in the face, but now I'm just crying. Most of the things were just clothing items (and a pair of nice boots!) but the guitar has a lot of sentimental value to me. 

WWYD?!  

shaysmom05

Have you asked FI's dad if he may have seen it? If she's that rude to you, I'd just bypass her completely on as much as you can. Some people are just like that. All you can do is kill them with kindness. ((HUGS))

rvandiver0705

My husband would be calling his sister and ripping her a new one.  She basically stole your things, which is beyond unacceptable.  I don't care if she likes or dislikes me, she doesn't get to steal my things and sell them!

caitlin*marie

The father is very ill in the hospital. Unfortunately he isn't going to be around much longer. He hasn't been at the house in weeks. 

I really just don't think she is aunt material... Sorry but I have no interest letting my child around her. Is that horrible? She treats me like sh!t so why should I want to let her bask in the joy of my baby? 

damabo80

rvandiver0705:

My husband would be calling his sister and ripping her a new one.  She basically stole your things, which is beyond unacceptable.  I don't care if she likes or dislikes me, she doesn't get to steal my things and sell them!

I agree. Why isn't your FI fighting this battle for you? It's his sister and his dad's house.....

BabyMimi

My DH would be over there raising hell. That is not just not liking you...that is downright vicious.

What a B.