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Ectopic

julesjbjulesjb member
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I guess I have been trying to convince myself for the last two weeks that even though they were treating me for an ectopic that it probably wasnt really one.  I even passed some "sac" like tissue and they sent it to the path lab. I found out this morning that it was just decidual cast and there were no chorionic villi.  My dr said she feels more strongly that this is ectopic. I just don't want to accept it for some reason. I dont have any of the predisposing signs. My dr. says to be today " maybe you had an infection in the past and didnt know it" ...thanks lady. I really feel like thats not the case.

Well after my second Methotrexate injection my numbers went from 1600 to 667. So all in all its working and I should be happy right. I was reading through some of the posts about ladies and success after ectopic. A lot of them are after losing a tube and I even read that people who keep their tube are a bigger risk of having another!?!?!?!?!  Ahhhhhh I should really figure out how to move on from here because this couldnt be healthy torturing myself with statistics.

Hope you ladies are having a nice Thursday, only two more weeks of this god forsaken  year.....

BFP #1 6/18/10 Saw HB 7/15/10 Missed M/C 8/17/10 @ 12 weeks 2 days- 2 D&C's( 8/20 and 8/26) BFP#2 11/21/10 Nonviable at 5wks, possible ectopic. Methotrexate 12/3/10&12/9/10 BFP#3 3/10/11 Beta@12dpo 39 Beta@14dpo 160! 21 DPO 2439 HB at 7wks 127 EDD 11/17/11
ITS A BOY!!!! Born 11/13/11 BFP #4: 10/29/12 edd 7/11/12
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Re: Ectopic

  • adamfamadamfam
    sorry to hear that, its sounds like having an ectopic lends a whole new level of stress to the loss, as well as thinking about ttc again.  Sorry I dont have any advice to give, but good luck as you figure things out.
    DD born 2007, lots of ttc #2 without success, now one & done.
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  • kimmiekpkimmiekp member
    Looking at stats and stuff, while human nature, and I can't say I wouldn't be doing the same thing - please keep in mind that YOU are different... no matter what happens or happened to anyone else, you cannot predict what will or won't happen to you.  For every negative stat there is a positive one, or an exception to the rule. So try to take a deep breath and just go through this experience as best as you can while trying to take all the negative bullsh and push it to the back.  Take it a day at a time and just try to look positively towards the future, that's one way of giving yourself the ultimate control of the situation. Wishing you all the best! :)
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