DH Vent (kind of long)

aturek

Okay. So, a bit of backstory before I vent:

1. DH's typical work schedule is 5am - 1pm. We don't see each other much because we both work retail. We're both stressed because of the holiday shoppers, normal stresses, etc. Lately he's been the one in good moods, and I've been negative. I've been working on being positive.

2. I don't chart well on here. I forget to log in to FF, but I still check CM and temp on my phone. Please don't judge my chart, or me for not staying with it. DH and I decided not to chart too critically right now. We've been TTC since around June, but we're not too picky with it - we've decided that after the holidays we will be more picky with it. 

 Onto my vent....

So, based on CM and temps, I do believe I O'd today, or am about to. Either way, this week is "the week" for us, and we'd planned on BDing EOD, or as often as we could, based on our schedules. I got home from work this evening, and I was in a GREAT mood. I wanted to share this mood with DH and of course, BD! I get home, and he's in a crappy mood, he's short with me, and he's cranky as hell. (I should also note that he's usually the one that has to initiate sex, because I've got an odd sex drive.) I'm immediately upset, and I say "So, no sex tonight?" with a frown on my face, hoping that the answer will be that we will. He's like "Nope. I'm tired and cranky." and we go back and forth being pissy with each other, and he finally says he's just going to go to bed, because he has to work at 5am tomorrow.

So, here I sit, bumping, because I'm bored and now lonely....because my husband decided to go to bed. Let's hope yesterday's BD or hopefully tomorrow's are strategically placed for my cycle!

Ugh. End rant.

XXXXX222

Sorry about your spat but every other day sex will cover your bases.

aturek

sulfababy:

Sorry about your spat but every other day sex will cover your bases.

Thanks : ) I'm hoping to cover the bases if he's not in a crappy mood! I wish our schedules worked out better.....thanks, retail! hehe

jb3411

Been there!  I've also had days like that with DH.  Add the stress of TTC to the stress of normal life and days like this happen!  Hope tomorrow goes better for you!

msmarsh

You may want to try a more seductive approach tomorrow. Sometimes the "Wanna have sex?" question works well, but sometimes men secretly want to be wooed 

Better luck tomorrow!

aturek

msmarsh:

You may want to try a more seductive approach tomorrow. Sometimes the "Wanna have sex?" question works well, but sometimes men secretly want to be wooed 

Better luck tomorrow!

 

hehe, so true! Since I've been so 'blah' about sex, DH typically lights up at anything that means that I'm initiating it! hehe...but yes, hopefully tomorrow will work out, and that my body cooperates! : )

woodh

I hate fighting with DH when I know we need to have sex. It makes me more mad that my being mad at him might be the reason I didn't get pregnant that month.