I just saw your post from a few days ago about Tricare.
The link the lady responded back to you has good information. From what I have read if you switch from Prime to Standard, it can be hard and time consuming (only hear-say). If you choose Standard you don't have to worry about every getting a referral to a doctor or clinic as long as they are covered by Tricare. It is a 80/20 and most of IF is covered unless you are doing IUI or IVF. Even the meds won't be covered if you are doing an assisted insemination.
I see a RE in Downtown Tacoma. I can recommend him if you would like, it's right next to Tacoma General. I like him and the office. He isn't the most friendly doctor I have meet but he is polite and well educated. I have heard from a few ladies that the Seattle Reproductive place is good and very nice inside, but for me the cost of going there was not worth it unless I was doing IUI or IVF.
Good luck with your choice. You can PM or page me, I lurk for the most part.