Taking FMLA

Turtle143

I am entitled to a total of 30 weeks FMLA (w/ job security and and health benefits protection). I have been very sick and started FMLA paperwork last month. I am now starting to have longer periods during day when I don't feel quite as queasy but still just as sick in the evenings.

So I have an option to take FMLA now, paperwork done and Dr's note and everything ready to go. I want to reduce my hours from working M-F 9hours/day so 6 hours/day. Somehow I can't help but feel bad  since I'm feeling a little better and still want to take FMLA. If I start FMLA now, I would have 7 weeks less FMLA after childbirth, by June. I want to stay at home for as long as I can. I also know that I don't want to come back to work full time after FMLA. I feel like I should be saving up instead of cutting 10 hours out of my work hours. And DH is gonna be okay with the bills even without me working. Sigh. I just feel like I should save up like mad while I can. But I'm also exhausted. And maybe lazy, a tad.

WWYD? Thanks for listening to my rambling.

gymnst1013

I might take a little now while I was still feeling bad but then start back full time as soon as I could - you might be feeling loads better in 2 weeks.

Cat-in-Boston

Your maternity leave is going to go by in a blink of an eye and you're going to be wanting more time (regardless of how much time you get, you always want more before having to go back to work). I recommend that you continue to work without taking the FMLA as long as you can physically.

MommaA117

I'd try to work now so that you will have the most time possible with LO....thats my startegy at least.

Turtle143

That was my plan too, to work as long as I can then take even as long as 1 year off work. But I've been so exhausted lately I just wish don't feel up for anything. I hope this passes soon.