Need to Vent...

BlondeBride82

This is gonna be short....

The Next person to tell me they are pregant and ask "so when u gonna have another one?" im gonna punch them in the face!!!!!

fireflies0306

i'm with you!  you don't know how many facebook friends i've "hidden" since the d & e...it seems all the new moms are just flooding fb with their pics, and all of them (while some have faced this kind of a loss), say we should try again soon--really?  ***smack***

lotus88

I know! one of my good friends is pregnant at work and a few ppl know we've been trying for almost a year. We had a luncheon today and it was awful. It stings when they talk about her pregnancy. I was 4 weeks behind her.  Few ppl know that part. Anyway, that really hurts.

 

On a related vent. I was at the OB yesterday to sign the paperwork for my D&C this monday. So i'm sitting in the waiting room with a bunch of pregnant women, which I expect. But this woman sitting near me is calling her friends to complain that she just found out she's having ANOTHER boy. Poor her, she wanted a girl. That her boyfriend gave his ex wife two girls. Why isn't she having any.  Then she goes on to complain about the 50 dollars she made waitressing that day. Now I want everybody to get what they need and I know everybody is at a different place financially, but it's so frustrating becaues I feel like I did everything right! Everything is secured and ready. WTF!

lotus88

Oh, and sometimes I just want to blurt it out to them. That I was pregnant, our first after 10 months of trying, and it's a nightmare. Thanks for asking.

lkfdp

It is very irritating.  When I was still 7 weeks pregnant, my best friends mom asked me when we were going to start trying and I said something like 'we have talked about it and we aren't sure yet".  And she responded "O yea, so probably not for a while huh?".  I don't know why but it really pissed me off.  I know she didn't mean it to sound this way, but it sounded like "I agree, you aren't ready for kids yet" or something like that.

I also have a feeling that I am going to want to blurt it out at some point.  I am sorry you had to go through this, but glad we all have each other to vent to.

lotus88

amen

LaraGaudess

BlondeBride82:

This is gonna be short....

The Next person to tell me they are pregant and ask "so when u gonna have another one?" im gonna punch them in the face!!!!!

Word! 

dana1318a

fireflies0306:

i'm with you!  you don't know how many facebook friends i've "hidden" since the d & e...it seems all the new moms are just flooding fb with their pics, and all of them (while some have faced this kind of a loss), say we should try again soon--really?  ***smack***

I completely deleted them..and it felt GOOD.  And ugh I went out last weekend with two girlfriends (one has 2 daughters under 4, and the other has a 1yr old son.  But they both want more.)  Anyway, they were both like "well just try again!" and then one of them actually says "OMG AWWWWW Dana's having a baby!!"  Ummm wtf.  No, I'm not actually, and you know that.  I'm pretty sure she meant something more like OMG Dana's going to try to have a baby, but it really, really p!ssed me off. 

ililheatheri

I know how you're feeling... I'm a first grade teacher and this is the conversation I had today:

A? ?you don?t have a kid??

Me ? ?no?

A-?why? You don?t want one??

Me ? ?I want one.?

 

A? ?you want a baby??

Me- ?yes?

A ? ?does your husband want a baby??

Me- ?yes?

A ? ?One in your belly right??(as she?s touching my belly)

Me ? ?yeah, one day??