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MADforever2009
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emotional rollercoaster is an understatement at this point
MADforever2009
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I'm literally cracking a joke one minute and then next then I know I can be crying...no, not crying, BALLING.
Story time...
Hubbs leaves at 8ish in the am and gets home at 8ish in the pm. So Let's just say I'm lonely but I'm dealing. (visitors, shopping, etc) Last night he calls at 6:30 says it was a rough day and his partners asked him to go grab a beer. "Sure, I say. Not a big deal." He has been working real hard and bringing home good money (he's 100% commission). He knew from that afternoon I was making dinner and I made it early because I was going to eat before he got home. I made a deal with him, that when he got home he would pick up the dinner. (I presumed he figured I meant after he ate).
He got home shortly before 9:00 and went into the kitchen and was just kinda shuffling...come to find out, he was just putting away the dinner. (wrapping it all in foil..???) I asked him why he wasnt eating, he said he wasnt that hungry. Yes, I told him not to eat when he went out cause dinner was here and he knew. Did he think I would make dinner if he wasnt going to eat?????!!!??? WTF? This has happened once before (but he didnt eat because he didnt like it that time, which hurt my feelings...I cried...yada yada...he said sorry and it would never happen again...
Well it DID!!! And i balled, and he didnt get it, I tried to explain but instead he came back with I was giving him an attitude. I was all worked up so of course going to bed wasnt going to happen.
...I guess he ate dinner, started cleaning and what do you know...sinks started filling up with water at lighting speed...(this is at 10:30) hubbs is bailing water out the front door cause even our front bathroom sink was filling up. 12:00 a maintenance man shows up...
Let's just say, I definitely woke up on the wrong side of the bed this morning and I've already cried once...
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Re: emotional rollercoaster is an understatement at this point
Ugh, I'm sorry. Hang in there - we all have our moments, and I think it's hard for our SOs to understand all of the emotions that are going on inside.
((Hugs))
i just read my own post and i sound like a wuss bag baby.
LOL at baby trying to pull off ball on babies hat!!!! Too cute.
That was my "favorite" part of my wife's pregnancy!!!!! I was off playing soldier from 24wks to 32wks, and when I left, aside from her being sad that I was supposed to be gone for a year, she was "all good".
I got home, we were soooooooooo happy to see each other.....10 min later, in the car, she was bawling her eyes out....I was soooooooooooooooooo confused. My "fave" one of all was the 30min Happy-Upset-Angry-Bawling-Happy encounter the night before the twins were born.
Women: we barely understand anything about you to begin with, then you go and shake it up with these hormone things during pregnancy......NOT nice. You confuse us......
On a side note:
I cook....wife eat food
I speak.....wife get mad
Me stay barefoot in kitchen with babies.....make wife happy!
I do give you all kudos for harboring aliens for *hopefully* 8-9mo.
This!
Once I started hysterically crying because DH didn't "understand" how much I wanted a Buffalo Chicken Sandwich. He was accused of being selfish, not patient, in sensitive, etc.
He used the line from Knocked Up "I'd like to say 'F&CK You Hormones, not Allison, you're a raving b&tch hormones, not Allison.....'"