TTC After a Loss

1st TTC post!

Well.. We are officially able to TTC since the D&C. Went to the follow up today.. which took 3 weeks to get into! And He said everything looked fine and we can start trying right away. I know that some drs say that you should wait 2 cycles or so.. But this doctor said to wait 2 weeks. And he has been at this for 30 years! I know that I still have doubts because it is such a contraversial subject.. But I want to hear to go ahead, so that is what I am listening to. Either way.. we are now TTC!!!! The loss from a few weeks ago was our first pregnancy... so I really hope and pray this process doesn't take long to get pregnant again! Especially since all I hear about is who is pregnancy this week.. I mean really.. How many people can I know that is pregnant at the same time that "I" should be. Heck some are even the same weeks that I would have been. I know that sounds super insensitive.. I am really happy for them.. but oh-so-jealous at the same time. And I know this is a "join the crowd" thing and very normal.. I just wish I wasn't secretly crying inside everytime I hear about it.

Re: 1st TTC post!

  • Best of luck to you in this new journey.


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    BFP#2 {Almond} - 2.1.11 EDD 10.12.11 C/P 2.11.11

  • Good luck !

    Married 5/15/10. Me (29). DH (33). BFP#1 7/25/10 - Missed m/c 8wks - D&E 8/25/10 BFP#2 12/25/10 - Missed m/c 7wks - D&E 1/20/11 (second loss due to abnormal chromosome 7) Genetics testings- Normal. RPL panel results- Normal. Elevated FSH (14). DH b/w normal. SA- Normal. HSG- Left tube possibly blocked. Minor septum removed. My Ovulation Chart ~~ Hope is the companion of power, and mother of success. For who so strongly hopes has within him the gift of miracles ~~ image
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  • Hello and congrats on getting the green light to ttcal already.  I think we've all been there and felt the same way you have at one time or another.
  • So sorry for your loss but welcome to the board.  Good luck!!
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  • Best of luck to you!
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  • Welcome to the board!  Best of luck to you!!
    bumping from my phone. please pardon any typos and missing punctuation
  • I'm sorry for your loss, but welcome to the board. GL!
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    BFP 2: 12/28/10
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  • Thanks all.. I didn't realize my vocubulary in the first post. I don't normally say people are pegnancy. LOL.. I should pay more attention.

  • That's good news!  Good luck & I hope that your stay on the board is a quick & happy one!

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  • Good Luck!!

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    BFP-11/21/10 M/C-11/25/10
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    Clomid Cycle #2-BFP-1/18/2011 M/C-1/26/2011
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  • Good luck to you!  It's really hard to be happy for people when seeing them pg makes us sad. 
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  • Welcome to the board!  Hopefully your stay here is short and sweet.
    November 2010 - 10.5 week loss  o:) 
    October 2011 - DS (7)  <3 
    July 2014 - Stillborn DD (24 weeks)  o:) 
    August 2015 - DD (3)  <3 
    April 2018 - 5 week loss o:) 

  • I'm sorry for your loss. Welcome and good luck!
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    BFP #4 5/14/12
    5/17/12...1st Betas- 176, P4 3.6
    5/22/12...2nd Betas- 207, P4 6.1 (MC confirmed)
  • I am sorry for your loss.  Good Luck TTC!
  • So sorry for your loss. Hope your stay is short and sweet!
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