After my first m/c I was waiting so impatiently for my period and was SO excited when it arrived. I think I literally sent an email to all my friends, as if they would care.
My period came back after the second m/c a few days ago, which means we can start TTC again (according to my OB). This time I am so scarred, though, like I don't feel ready to move on. Anyone feel this way after a second (or subsequent) loss?
Re: Got my period, so ambivalent (multiple losses mentioned)
October 2011 - DS (7)
July 2014 - Stillborn DD (24 weeks)
August 2015 - DD (3)
April 2018 - 5 week loss
This is my first lost, but I am feeling the same way. DH really wants to try again after our first cycle (ER doc who is an OB said with my history there is no reason to wait, but my midwife said (as a standard protocol) to wait 3 months. I'll take ER's advice over midwife as I was highly disapointed with her in general). I am terrified, mostly I am depressed that I will never get that "pregnancy glow" or worry-free pregnancy, I feel like we've been robbed of that innocence, and that even a strong heartbeat on an ultrasound can't be a reassuring sign and I will spend 9 months of constant worry and fear for the worst after this horrible ordeal.
You are definitely not alone! I am 4 weeks post m/c and terrified of AF showing up!