Really his timing could not be worse! He and DS are both sick. I am hoping that I will still be surging in AM and we can make the window. We haven't BD'd yet so odds are dwindling. How long will the surge usually last? I had a neg OPK this morning and a positive around 4pm.
Re: +OPK and DH is sick
I hope your DH feels better by tonight or tomorrow. GL!
Last month, I had a - OPK the morning of CD18, a + by that night, a + the morning of CD19, and a - that evening (any day I get a + OPK I record it as + on my chart).
I had a nice pre-O temp dip on CD19, but my rise on CD20 was not enough to make FF think I O'd that day as well, and its regression analysis software has me O'ing at CD20 (I played with some dummy temps to see what it would have done and if my temp on CD20 was higher, it moved my CH's to CD19 like I thought it would).
So there definitely is hope for you! Hope he feels better soon!
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That stinks!
I'm such a bad wife...I'm thinking "How sick is he?" He could just lay there for all I care, I'll do all the hard work! Not a bad deal for him, if you ask me
Hope everybody's feeling better soon, and that you can squeeze in some well-timed sex!
How sick is he??? Time to pull out the lingerie, seduce him and find out!
The timing is awful. Hopefully your surge will last a while, and your DH will be feeling up to snuff. Good luck!
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Me:35, 5 major abdominal surgeries for Ulcerative colitis, failed j pouch, perm. Ileostomy DX-DOR & Tubal abnormalities/Extensive Adhesions from earlier surgeries.latest fsh -26
IVF 1- March 2012 Antagonist Protocol; BCP until March 3; AFC this cycle is 10 (Hooray); Start stims on March 9; ER on March 19- 2R; 2T (1 perfect 8 cell, 1 scrappy 3 cell); tubal infection from ER-hospitalized. Doomed! BFN
Essure Procedure to treat bilateral hydrosalpinx; June 2012, wait 3 months for confirmation test.
IVF2 (Egg Banking)-letrozole/antagonist cycle; June/July 2012 225iu merional + cetrotide; slow responder, Ovulated before ER. Unbelievable. Canceled remaining cycles with my eggs
DE IVF in Brno, Czech. Approx. ET on Oct 6 CANCELLED-Essure didn't close both tubes-test again in 3 months
IVF3-DE IVF ET on Dec 9, 2012 (decided to roll the dice no matter what!)
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Yes, this is my thinking too. You're not a bad wife, desperate times call for desperate measures, right?!