i hate that we have so many parties/events to go to but i constantly find myself wondering if i'll be pregnant for some of the events etc... so annoying.
DH wants to get a limo w/ his business partner and go downtown, normally i'd be excited to go but all i can think about is i don't want to go if i'm pg. b/c i don't want to be stuck around a bunch of drunk people. i know i'd want to go home and be in bed.
Same w/ NY's, we're supposed to go away for the weekend w/ friends but i know i won't want to go if i'm pg. b/c everyone will be drunk and i'll be the only sober one which is never fun.
i know it's silly of me to think of things like this now but i can't help it. i just want to know what this month will bring me. If only i could tell the future.
Re: TTC around the holidays stinks
I agree. I can't plan my Christmas at all. If I happen to get KU this cycle, then I probably will be doing betas over Christmas and going in for an early u/s to make sure its not ectopic.
If I'm not KU, I will probably have my CD3 u/s like Christmas eve. Yeah, that sounds like a load of fun.
Mom to Teagan 4.11.07 and Cora 9.30.11
D&E @ 22w 9.30.09 CMV infection BFP 10.15.10 C/P 4w4d
yes thats another worry, miscarrying over the holidays.
ugh. it really does stink but i guess the payoff is good if we do get BFPs but then enters a whole other realm of worries.
Normally we dont' do much either so last year i really didn't have all these worries but this year most of our friends have had their babies so i think they all want to party, where as i'm still stuck TTC.
this is exactly why i get so mad at myself for worrying now about it. there's nothing i can do about it until i either get af or bfp. i wish there was a switch in my brain i could turn off to say stop thinking about it and just enjoy and deal w/ everything when the time comes.
I agree with this too. I am more concerned about trying to get FWP in while I either have family in my house or am at someone else's house. If I weren't paying what seems like millions of dollars to the RE I would just get a slew of hotel rooms. Urgh.
I know exactly how you feel. This year I have the added fun of not knowing if/when I'll be doing IVF. I can basically guarantee that I'll have the ER or be on bedrest on Christmas or NYE.
I also made the huge mistake of announcing to the family the first time around two years ago on Christmas Day so that's a nice little reminder that I'll have forever.
I am with you 200%
I am constantly planning "What if..." moments in life that revolve around my baby that has yet to arrive.
Hang in there...I am here if you ever need to vent.