Would you be pissed?

tnas1

Woke up to the joy that is AF. Told MH and he said "That sucks." That's it.

I told him I was getting out of class early tonight and he said he was going out with his friends. So looks like i'm CD 1 and all alone to sulk.

 I get home and let the dogs in and one of them pukes all over the carpet. So instead of taking a long, hot bath, I spend 30 minutes cleaning up barf. Yay.

 I finally get to sit down and drink my cup of pomegranate juice. My other dog nuzzles me and knocks the cup out of my hands. All 8 oz's of the juice are all over my beige couch. 

 Even after all of that, i'm still mad that MH hasn't shown any support about AF's doom. Would you be mad? Or should I just let it go?

 Sorry i'm being Debbie Downer! 

 

 

EmilyE2

I'm sorry you're having such a crappy day  Did you tell your husband how upset you are?  Maybe he doesn't realize that you're so down.  

NeonEyeliner77

I'd be a little irked because DH knows how I feel about CD1. I tend to get really down about it no matter what I tell myself.

Jelliebean1982

I'm so sorry your day sucks =(  I think you should drink some wine with that POM juice. 

jwhitfield

Of course it sucks! I would just mention to him that a little more support on your upset days would be nice! He is a man, he can't help but not show emotions sometimes! It looks like you had a bad day! I hope tomorrow is better! Sorry for AF,dog puke, DH going out, and juice on the couch! GL!

Jessiree

I wouldn't be upset. I don't think it's fair to be mad at someone when you haven't told them what would make you mad.

starkbaby22

Ahh girl!  Sounds like a craptastic Monday to me!

I think with DH saying "that sucks" is just something a man says...MH is the same way.  They aren't always so good at responding to things in your favor, ya know?

As for the barf..  no thanks, and I'm sorry YOU had to deal with it, too!

The POM juice..I spilled a 12 oz. cappucino in my car today..never a good thing...

I don't think I'd be mad, it just sounds like one of those frustrating days. 

Chin up, dearie.

boymamaco

That is a sucky day all around. I'm sorry! Hope you get some good down time later. Not sure that I would be pissed. Actually I would, but I would prefer to approach it from the standpoint of, hey next time know that I may need some extra comforting.

tblauvelt

That just sounds like a series of unfortunate events. Sucks for CD1 andI feel you on the dog puke and knocking over of things (esp. on a nice couch). I hope you feel better tomorrow and that your DH sympathizes a little better.

AJ3122

You're not a Debbie Downer, or a Negative Nellie lol.

I'd be annoyed too, plus AF is here, you don't need another reason to be mad.

Is this your first cycle TTC? Maybe he doesn't get it yet. I'd have an adult beverage and go to bed!

tnas1

Yeah, you girls are right. He probably doesn't get it yet... I need to tell him that CD1 is going to be a crappy day for me. Thanks for your support...I feel a bit better already!

eesome

I wouldn't be too upset about it. Maybe he was going out with his guy friends because he was upset, and wanted to vent to them? Who knows. 
But-- I am sure he meant nothing by it. 
Sometimes men don't know how to approach upsetting situations, or when their wives are sad, you know?

cantalopes24

No, I wouldn't expect the world to stop for CD1, or a temp drop, or a BFN. If you want to have a drink and take a bath I totally get that, but I wouldn't expect much beyong a "that sucks" from YH.

tnas1

cantalopes24:

No, I wouldn't expect the world to stop for CD1, or a temp drop, or a BFN. If you want to have a drink and take a bath I totally get that, but I wouldn't expect much beyong a "that sucks" from YH.

Yeah, I wouldn't expect the world to stop either. I guess I was hoping for a bit more than 'that sucks' but oh well. Thanks for your input!

brockli

I have been there.  That is literally what MH says every CD1.  It is super frustrating and I have tried to tell him how much it upsets me.  He has told me though the reason he doesn't say more than that is that he is afraid he is the reason I'm not pregnant. So hard as it may be try to cut him some slack if you can.

Sorry about your all together bad day though! 

MrsT0522

MH doesn't really know how to react to these situations either. Whenever I am stressing about anything TTC related, he just kind of zones out and says "It'll happen soon" or something along those lines.

Sure, it's  annoying, but I wouldn't go so far to be pissed about it. I'm sorry you're having a crappy day though!

tnas1

Yeah, 'pissed' was a bit strong. I was at the peak of my frustration when I posted initially. Oh well, i'm over it!

 Thanks ladies! 

HoneyBunny630

Terrible Horrible No Good Very Bad Day   Here's hoping to a better one tomorrow!

GPhiBGirl

Hey Girlie!  My DH is the same way sometimes, I think it's a guy thing.  And one time when he did it I got really pissed about it and started crying and yelling (AF's gifts to me at the time). Anyway, he explained that the reason he tries not to dwell on it every cycle is to try to keep me positive because he knows how upset I am and how much I'm dwelling on it.  So he thinks if he acts like it's not that big od a deal, it will help me get over it a little faster. 

Also...boys are dumb and don't always get the things that we go through.  I would chalk it up to him being a boy, and have a nice glass of wine.

PM me if you ever want to chat...us G-Phi's need to stick together!