Being pregnant and overweight

SarahTx5701

Mrs.C042807:

Sorry it took me so long to get here for this.  You know, it took me forever to drag my fat overweight self into my office where my computer is.

Sarahbunchanumbers, unless you've ever struggled with your weight, you can just shut it.  Don't speak about what you don't know.

I have, so you don't know what you are talking about.

and for those of you who think I am calling you a bad mother for whatever reason. get the eff over it.  You know it doesnt bother you, you want some drama.

The girl said she was SCARED about being pregnant at her current weight.

My advice...lose the weight if you can. plain and simple.

If she would have said I am over 200lbs and am pregnant. I would have said congrats like I do with every other pregnant woman on here.

To those of you who are overweight and healthy..GREAT!  You can be healthy and be overweight. I applaud you for being active and staying fit.

No mater what I say I will continue to be called a judgemental biitch, so it's pointless.

 

greenclown

SarahTx5701:

and for those of you who think I am calling you a bad mother for whatever reason. get the eff over it.  You know it doesnt bother you, you want some drama.

Seriously, are you really this dumb or are you just trying to make yourself feel better about the shitastic crap you've posted?

dmogmo

SarahTx5701:

Mrs.C042807:

Sorry it took me so long to get here for this.  You know, it took me forever to drag my fat overweight self into my office where my computer is.

Sarahbunchanumbers, unless you've ever struggled with your weight, you can just shut it.  Don't speak about what you don't know.

I have, so you don't know what you are talking about.

and for those of you who think I am calling you a bad mother for whatever reason. get the eff over it.  You know it doesnt bother you, you want some drama.

The girl said she was SCARED about being pregnant at her current weight.

My advice...lose the weight if you can. plain and simple.

If she would have said I am over 200lbs and am pregnant. I would have said congrats like I do with every other pregnant woman on here.

To those of you who are overweight and healthy..GREAT!  You can be healthy and be overweight. I applaud you for being active and staying fit.

No mater what I say I will continue to be called a judgemental biitch, so it's pointless.

 

You were a judgmental *** you fvcking genius. That wasn't advice.

 

Mrs.C042807

SarahTx5701:

Mrs.C042807:

Sorry it took me so long to get here for this.  You know, it took me forever to drag my fat overweight self into my office where my computer is.

Sarahbunchanumbers, unless you've ever struggled with your weight, you can just shut it.  Don't speak about what you don't know.

I have, so you don't know what you are talking about.

Your comments in this post suggest you are a person who hasn't struggled with weight and being pregnant and obese.  If you have in fact struggled, as you say, then your comments just show how judgemental and tactless you are.

 

PubStar09

SarahTx5701:

and for those of you who think I am calling you a bad mother for whatever reason. get the eff over it.  You know it doesnt bother you, you want some drama.

 

SarahTx5701:

If you cant take care  of yourself how can you take care of a child?

Implying something can mean the same as outright saying it.  And it absolutely bothers me that you feel you are so high above the rest of us as to be allowed to imply our lack of parenting ability based on weight, of all things.

You're a real peach.

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SarahTx5701:

My advice...lose the weight if you can. plain and simple.

Um, no. Your advice was to lose the weight because if you can't do that then you can't take care of a child. Not really so plain and simple. More like extremely stupid and classless.  

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PubStar09

InternetExplorer:

Today fatties, yesterday Hispanics...so tomorrow?

 

Oooh is she anti-Hispanic also? Link?

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violetvirgo

InternetExplorer:

PubStar09:

InternetExplorer:

Today fatties, yesterday Hispanics...so tomorrow?

 

Oooh is she anti-Hispanic also? Link?

 

She DD'ed, but Hispanics are lazy, entitled, and don't take enough insurance.

 

This one is special. 

awesome.  i love when someone can figure out insured i am based on my ethnicity.  WIN!

to be fair though, SarahTx has always been a bit dim when it comes to tact. 

skoorbnibor

kms379:

Everyone needs to stop. I posted what I posted to get opinions, whether if be positive or negative.  The end.  I am not offended by what anyone said. 

 You are new, so this gets a pass. No one is defending you, they are reminding Sarahtx##### of her stupid comment. You will do well here, since you understand that posting something on a message board makes is open to discussion, ridicule and being linked to 10 new places (although this is, of course, against TOS)

 

InternetExplorer:

It just makes you feel better about yourself to have this attitude about the fatties doens't it, Sarah?

 

That usually means there is some massive insecurity/issue floating around there and you need to puff yourself up and attack some group.

 

Today fatties, yesterday Hispanics...so tomorrow?

 

 

I would love to hear about this prejudice, IE.  

And Sarahtx###, I am fat, and willing to bet I am healthier than most people, even with insulin dependant diabetes. I was also one of the healthiest patients at my high risk OB, which was because of diabetes, not my weight. I lost weigh during pregnancy, which is actually not uncommon for those who are overweight. I had a very quick recovery from my c section, I was cleaning my house the day I came home, which was only 3 days from delivery, although my OB and insurance company expected me to stay for 5-6, due to diabetes

You don't know enough about being overweight while pregnant to comment. Admitting it might be a good idea.You could have said, getting healthy is always a good idea before getting pregnant. Because healthy is an issue completely separate from the number on the scale.  

FLchick7

I'm not overweight, but I bet a lot of the "overweight" women on this board are a lot more healthy than me.  I hate to exercise, won't go to the gym, and hate running. The only exercise I enjoy at all is swimming but I don't like to swim in public pools and don't currently have one of my own, so I don't. I eat junk all the time, and have had to really try to do better during pregnancy because if left to my own devices I would eat hot pockets and pizza rolls all day long.  The only reason I cook is for my husband. 

I'm the perfect example of how weight doesn't have that much to do with health IMO.