going skiing and hot tubs

amandaleigh1

The husband and I are going to go skiing over Thanksgiving weekend with anther couple and a coworker of mine. There will be hot tub use for sure as there is one on the balcony of the condo we are renting. How do I navigate having my husband spend as little time as possible in there? I haven't even asked him to abstain yet, and it seems like completely abstaining could be socially awkward! What to do? Also, this trip is likely to fall in the days leading up to my fertile time, too.

jb2rn

I wouldn't worry too much. The sperm that will exit his body this month were made weeks ago. It's continual use that may be a concern.

georgia3

Yep, I agree with pp- maybe you will be successfull this month and won't even need to worry about his "production" for next cycle

amandaleigh1

Thanks for the reassurance-- I will probably try to limit his time in there somewhat-- or resort to an ice pack in the shorts! And, yes, as always, let's hope for some success this month.