Thanks, everyone

ShannonLK

I wanted to thank you for all of the replies and words of encouragement.

We are going to send Christmas presents to the boys, just a few things though and probably registered mail (thanks Vanverth) for that idea.

 Vanverth to answer your question...my oldest son is mad at me because I called his dad a liar, which I didn't do, at least not to my son or his dad. So...even though his dad IS a liar, he wants nothing to do with me and told me "as far as I'm concerned jennifer (his step-mom) is the only true mom I have".

I have believed for quite some time that my ex was saying bad things about me and trying to turn my oldest against me. It's finally happened.

Thankfully, I have a very loving & supportive DH and a baby who is in total love with his Mommy.

I didn't think I would ever get pregnant...then I did...I know why. I have Logan to ease the pain of all of this mess. He does a great job of doing that too. 

funchicken

I saw your post from yesterday.  I'm glad you decided to send the boys gifts.  I think that's the best thing to do in this bad situation

M.Amy

I am so sorry your ex DH is being so horrible. Hopefully in the future you and your sons are able to really reconnect and that they realize how much you love them.