Very Nervous.....

Sdavis4289

So I'm a week passed my period start date, and my husband really wants me to take a hpt but I'm really scared. I'm not scared to be pregnant. I'm just really scared that  the test is going to tell me I'm not. I don't want to see another negitive. I really wish I could just suck it up enough just to do it already. I keep telling myself the longer I wait there's more of a chance it's going to show up BFP. I did take a test the day i was suppose to start my period and it came up negitive, which is why I think i'm scared to tak another one. Do you think i just took the test to early and that's why it showed up negitive. Should I wait a little longer? WDYT

TIA

Mrs.Dove08

When in doubt, POAS

XXXXX222

I think you might be pregnant but there's only one way to know for sure...  Just get take the test!  Good luck!!

2have2hold

sulfababy:

I think you might be pregnant but there's only one way to know for sure...  Just get take the test!  Good luck!!

Word.

katie328

Unfortunately, without you temping, there is no way to know for sure when you O'd and whether or not your period is late. You have probably just O'd late. Test weekly and call your doc if you get to CD 60. GL

michaela080

Wow, you have the opposite problem of most people here! Do it!

cemacmil

Sdavis4289:

So I'm a week passed my period start date, and my husband really wants me to take a hpt but I'm really scared. I'm not scared to be pregnant. I'm just really scared that  the test is going to tell me I'm not. I don't want to see another negitive. I really wish I could just suck it up enough just to do it already. I keep telling myself the longer I wait there's more of a chance it's going to show up BFP. I did take a test the day i was suppose to start my period and it came up negitive, which is why I think i'm scared to tak another one. Do you think i just took the test to early and that's why it showed up negitive. Should I wait a little longer? WDYT

TIA

I am in this very same position! My longest cycle was 35 days (it has mostly been 29 days) and here I am on day 36. I told my husband about it today, we did not talk about testing really but I did tell him I want to wait till day 40 to test if AF has not shown by then. I took a test at day 29 and it was neg. So same scared boat here.

Its possible it was too early to tell when you took it, hormone surges can vary in women. That is why I am waiting...but that is just me. I hope everything works out in a BFP for you! 

branmuffin2112

Did you recently come off BC? I'm on CD 45 but October was my first month off the pill. My last period started on 9-21 and AF has been MIA since then. I've taken 4 tests and they've all been negative. Waiting sucks

Good luck though, hopefully you are pregnant and this will be a piece of cake for you 

Sdavis4289

branmuffin2112:

Did you recently come off BC? I'm on CD 45 but October was my first month off the pill. My last period started on 9-21 and AF has been MIA since then. I've taken 4 tests and they've all been negative. Waiting sucks

Good luck though, hopefully you are pregnant and this will be a piece of cake for you 

Nope no BC for us. We've been together 6 years and only used BC for about the first 1 1/2 of our relationship. We've always just used the pull out method. Before we got married in July, we started talking about how we wanted kids now and how we've been lucky (in the past) not to have any surprises come up, due to us not practicing safe sex. So after thinking about everything we where think something might be wrong with us fertility wise. So we just started trying on our honeymoon back in July and we've been trying since then. I'm just starting to get worried that we're going to have to involve the doctors and get tested to make sure everything is working properly. I just don't want to go through all of that.

dsb1977

Mrs.Dove08:

When in doubt, POAS

 Well said!

MrsSonny24

Sdavis4289:

branmuffin2112:

Did you recently come off BC? I'm on CD 45 but October was my first month off the pill. My last period started on 9-21 and AF has been MIA since then. I've taken 4 tests and they've all been negative. Waiting sucks

Good luck though, hopefully you are pregnant and this will be a piece of cake for you 

Nope no BC for us. We've been together 6 years and only used BC for about the first 1 1/2 of our relationship. We've always just used the pull out method. Before we got married in July, we started talking about how we wanted kids now and how we've been lucky (in the past) not to have any surprises come up, due to us not practicing safe sex. So after thinking about everything we where think something might be wrong with us fertility wise. So we just started trying on our honeymoon back in July and we've been trying since then. I'm just starting to get worried that we're going to have to involve the doctors and get tested to make sure everything is working properly. I just don't want to go through all of that.

First, POAS please   Hope you see a BFP, then you won't have to worry about going to the doctor.  You may have no reason to worry at all.