FFFC - although I will get flamed

Vuja_de

I just can not understand how, after everything T has said and done all through the tri boards and the parenting boards some of you can still give her the benefit of the doubt and be nice to her. I just can't fathom it, and as she continues to be a thorn in most of our sides and she continues to be rude, obnoxious and cruel some of you continue to coddle her, and make her feel like she should be welcome here.

She is a wolf in sheeps clothing.

I had to say this because it has really been bothering me for some reason, I guess because I just don't get why some of you can't see her true colors.

shoeboxx

She has never done/said anything nasty to me, so I will comment on her posts if they're appropriate.  I don't like how she called out Tonya G back on the tri board or what she said about SFB's LO, but when she's being decent, she's fine. 

+ T +

Blah blah. This entertains me more than upsets me. It's the Internet for Christs sake!

sharmurph18

I totally agree!  I love (and laugh at) everyone who continually kisses her hiney!

Hot Sauce on a Stick

I just ignore her posts. I like you, Vuja, but posts like this are what she craves. It makes her think she still has an effect on people.

heather121709

"She is a wolf in sheeps clothing"   love this quote!! haha

amber&patrick

shoeboxx:

She has never done/said anything nasty to me, so I will comment on her posts if they're appropriate.  I don't like how she called out Tonya G back on the tri board or what she said about SFB's LO, but when she's being decent, she's fine. 

This.  I treat her like I treat everyone else.  When she's being obnoxious, I will ignore her and call her out if it really gets to me.  When she's contributing to the conversation in a useful manner, I think she deserves the benefit of the doubt, as does everyone else.  I don't know why you care how anyone else responds to her.

+ T +

HotSauceonaStick:

I just ignore her posts. I like you, Vuja, but posts like this are what she craves. It makes her think she still has an effect on people.

Wow. You know what I think? You could make big bucks being a psychic!

Vuja_de

HotSauceonaStick:

I just ignore her posts. I like you, Vuja, but posts like this are what she craves. It makes her think she still has an effect on people.

You are completey right, I just needed to say this  this one time and be done with it.

side note: why isn't the fuucking block feature working?!

amber&patrick

sharmurph18:

I love (and laugh at) everyone who continually kisses her hiney!

??  I hope this isn't meant to refer to me for giving her credit for her advice to SFB01 about deadbeat dads.  If so, . 

sasky

If I ignored every poster who said something rude or obnoxious in the past, I'd be sitting her twiddling my thumbs for a very long time.

+ T +

Vuja_de:

HotSauceonaStick:

I just ignore her posts. I like you, Vuja, but posts like this are what she craves. It makes her think she still has an effect on people.

You are completey right, I just needed to say this  this one time and be done with it.

side note: why isn't the fuucking block feature working?!

You know what works better than the block feature? Not opening my posts or not reading my replies. People complain about the block feature never working, but all they need to do is exercise a little self control.

Hot Sauce on a Stick

sasky:

If I ignored every poster who said something rude or obnoxious in the past, I'd be sitting her twiddling my thumbs for a very long time.

Everyone is rude or obnoxious at one point or another. (Guilty!) But, there's a difference between being rude and being T. She's seriously a sociopath.

+ T +

HotSauceonaStick:

sasky:

If I ignored every poster who said something rude or obnoxious in the past, I'd be sitting her twiddling my thumbs for a very long time.

Everyone is rude or obnoxious at one point or another. (Guilty!) But, there's a difference between being rude and being T. She's seriously a sociopath.

Yes!! An e-diagnoses! It's been awhile!

Vuja_de

DUPE

Vuja_de

sasky:

If I ignored every poster who said something rude or obnoxious in the past, I'd be sitting her twiddling my thumbs for a very long time.

Oh come on, she has not just been "rude" and "obnoxious" and you know it.

If I called a kid ugly would you be nice to me? If I told you that the only reason I wanted to change OBGYNs was because the hospital they use is full of minorities and minorities make me uncomfortable? Or if I told you that if parents know their child will be handicapped they should abort.. would you still be nice and talk to me?

Yeah she has said all of that and then some.

+ T +

Vuja_de:

sasky:

If I ignored every poster who said something rude or obnoxious in the past, I'd be sitting her twiddling my thumbs for a very long time.

Oh come on, she has not just been "rude" and "obnoxious" and you know it.

If I called a kid ugly would you be nice to me? If I told you that the only reason I wanted to change OBGYNs was because the hospital they use is full of minorities and minorities make me uncomfortable? Or if I told you that if parents know their child will be handicapped they should abort.. would you still be nice and talk to me?

Yeah she has said all of that and then some.

Umm I never said the one about abortion. I'm pro-choice, but choose life. Handicap people don't deserve to be aborted. They deserve a life in which they will thrive, therefore I have my opinion about special needs chidden being in special needs classes. And the can of worms has opened...

sharmurph18

amber&patrick:

sharmurph18:

I love (and laugh at) everyone who continually kisses her hiney!

??  I hope this isn't meant to refer to me for giving her credit for her advice to SFB01 about deadbeat dads.  If so, . 

I have no clue what you're talking about but  right back at ya!

amber&patrick

sharmurph18:

I have no clue what you're talking about but  right back at ya!

LOL.  Oh, then never mind. 

sasky

Vuja_de:

sasky:

If I ignored every poster who said something rude or obnoxious in the past, I'd be sitting her twiddling my thumbs for a very long time.

Oh come on, she has not just been "rude" and "obnoxious" and you know it.

If I called a kid ugly would you be nice to me? If I told you that the only reason I wanted to change OBGYNs was because the hospital they use is full of minorities and minorities make me uncomfortable? Or if I told you that if parents know their child will be handicapped they should abort.. would you still be nice and talk to me?

Yeah she has said all of that and then some.

"Rude" and "obnoxious" were your words (check OP).  Not mine.

I stand by what I said.  I'm not going to go out of my way to be nice, be mean, or ignore any particular poster.  I don't have the energy.  I can't keep track of the histories of everyone on TB.  I come here to read and contribute to discussions that I find interesting, no matter who is participating.

Vuja_de

sasky:

Vuja_de:

sasky:

If I ignored every poster who said something rude or obnoxious in the past, I'd be sitting her twiddling my thumbs for a very long time.

Oh come on, she has not just been "rude" and "obnoxious" and you know it.

If I called a kid ugly would you be nice to me? If I told you that the only reason I wanted to change OBGYNs was because the hospital they use is full of minorities and minorities make me uncomfortable? Or if I told you that if parents know their child will be handicapped they should abort.. would you still be nice and talk to me?

Yeah she has said all of that and then some.

"Rude" and "obnoxious" were your words (check OP).  Not mine.

I stand by what I said.  I'm not going to go out of my way to be nice, be mean, or ignore any particular poster.  I don't have the energy.  I can't keep track of the histories of everyone on TB.  I come here to read and contribute to discussions that I find interesting, no matter who is participating.

Yeah, those were a COUPLE of my words.  

The only reason I remember all of this shiit is because of how awful it is. I don't keep tabs on anyone, but I find it hard to forget when someone is as cruel as she is.

So, let me get this straight.. if the bullshiit doesn't effect you, you don't care? Am I getting that right? Just want to be sure.

MSUMamaof2

I agree with PPs.  Until T burns her bridge with me, I will continue to talk to her.  Like any good "friend," I've told her when she's in the wrong.  I've told all my "e-friends" when they are in the wrong and expect they do the same for me.  I don't condone her behavior, but I'm also not going to ignore her because others have a problem with her.  My "e-friends" are big girls and they can take care of themselves.  I will stand up for them when warranted, but I'm not going to hate someone just because someone else has a problem with them.  I'm not taking sides, and that goes for anyone on this website. 

The people who call my opinions ignorant and question the time I spend with my children are the ones who will get the side-eye from me (sound familiar, Vuja?).  So, until T does that, you can flame me all you want to for being her "e-friend."    

Does anyone think for themselves anymore?  The group mentality is nauseating.  

sasky

Vuja_de:

sasky:

Vuja_de:

sasky:

If I ignored every poster who said something rude or obnoxious in the past, I'd be sitting her twiddling my thumbs for a very long time.

Oh come on, she has not just been "rude" and "obnoxious" and you know it.

If I called a kid ugly would you be nice to me? If I told you that the only reason I wanted to change OBGYNs was because the hospital they use is full of minorities and minorities make me uncomfortable? Or if I told you that if parents know their child will be handicapped they should abort.. would you still be nice and talk to me?

Yeah she has said all of that and then some.

"Rude" and "obnoxious" were your words (check OP).  Not mine.

I stand by what I said.  I'm not going to go out of my way to be nice, be mean, or ignore any particular poster.  I don't have the energy.  I can't keep track of the histories of everyone on TB.  I come here to read and contribute to discussions that I find interesting, no matter who is participating.

Yeah, those were a COUPLE of my words.  

The only reason I remember all of this shiit is because of how awful it is. I don't keep tabs on anyone, but I find it hard to forget when someone is as cruel as she is.

So, let me get this straight.. if the bullshiit doesn't effect you, you don't care? Am I getting that right? Just want to be sure.

I don't take TB as seriously as some people do.  I'm in and out, here and there.  Just because I don't get involved or stand up to the BS doesn't mean I'm some kind of heartless bystander, or that I "don't care."  I contribute where I want, and don't waste the energy elsewhere. 

I'm not flaming you or anyone else for how they choose to participate on TB.  So you can continue to eyeroll and make sarcastic comments toward me.  And I will continue to not let it affect me.

mrsmyers8