ATTN: Just want to clarify a few things.

#6

ETA:

I had a long drawn out post but figured why waste my breath. 

That is all.  Sorry. Im hurt.  Im not a crazy AE. 

Purrrfect433

I *have* been a lame AE before and post like this...well, they don't really do anything to clear your good name. Sorry your feelings are hurt. My name was mentioned, too, if it makes you feel any better.

DandR

Poof! headcase is gone!

amazing!

 

#6

I thought I was tougher than this but to see the mean things said really hurts.  I know Im not the most popular or funniest, or whatever but I am honest. 

 

EdithBouvierBeale

                         I am not a lame AE!!

 

(Im not saying you are, love- I have no idea. I feel really badly for your situation, to be sure; for the hand you've been dealt... I really would like to see you in a better way soon. I would have smothered your husband in his sleep by now.)

 

#6

He really isnt as bad of a guy as I make him sound.  The few times I have b!tched about him has been right after an argument.  We have all said things about our spouses.  AND to clarify he did not steal my paycheckS (as in more than 1) He cashed (with permission) and lost ONE paycheck.  I was p!$$ed and not thinking straight.  He was so upset over it he actually got sick to his stomach.  Thats not something one can fake.  

But that has been OVER a year.  I had forgotten all about it until now. 

 

*Lu-Lu*

Purrrfect433:

I *have* been a lame AE before and post like this...well, they don't really do anything to clear your good name. Sorry your feelings are hurt. My name was mentioned, too, if it makes you feel any better.

You weren't mentioned in an accusatory way... just brainstorming who has three kids.  

 

Zenya

Lucky*Ducky:

 AND to clarify he did not steal my paycheckS (as in more than 1) He cashed (with permission) and lost ONE paycheck. 

OK I don't think you were the AE (and said as much in that other post).  But you definitely posted before that he lost more than one large amount of money.  I remember it really clearly.

CleoKitty

Wow, that post really blew up after I went to bed last night. I'm with Zenya- I doubt you're the AE. Stranger things have been known to happen, I guess, but I just don't get that vibe from you.

I also think it's really sh!tty for people to say such nasty things about you just based on a hunch/guess. It definitely makes me have a lower opinion of people when they'd be so hurtful to someone who has always been nice.  I have a thick skin too and normally wouldn't really care what someone on here says, but that would have still gotten to me.

I only vaguely remember the thing from last year about your dh losing money and maybe I'm remembering it wrong, but in my mind I tend to cut him some slack because he's been sick, right? I know that chemo can really make you forgetful. 

 

PiperBride

Fawn, I am sorry you had to read that stuff, it was awful.  I've always thought you were nice and honest and I don't think you're an AE.  Also, it baffles me why people would assume HC was posting real details about him/herself.  And everyone assumed the three kids thing is the truth and started attacking you based on that.  So stupid.  The list of potential asholes with two kids on this board that could have added one to the count for the sake of that post is looooooooong.  Maybe the AE is someone who works with babies (vs. elderly) and cleans up poop all day.  That's an easy detail to substitute.   And I can recall some interesting posts regarding formula "borrowing" within the past two weeks.  

I admire anyone that has the patience to work with and clean up after adults.  If you work in a nursing home, bravo!