If you are friends with a bumpie, do you tend to dislike people that don't like that bumpie? Let's use T as an easy example: You are friends with T, I dislike T, could you be friends with me also?[Poll]
This seems like a silley juvenile question. Just sayin.
well it is something I have observed, juvenile or not it happens so why not discuss it?
Vuja, I have no problem with you whatsoever. We differ in opinions sometimes, but whatever "issues" we've had don't prevent me from reading your posts and most of the time agreeing with you. I mean that.
That being said, I think it's highly ironic that you bring this up this week. It was you who called me out last week for being "birds of a feather" with T, even though I've NEVER called anyone's LO ugly, talked about mentally challenged children, etc. Despite having at one time been "e-friends" with T, I've called her to the carpet on all of those statements. And yet, you still judged me as her equal and basically said you take nothing I say seriously because I was nice to her.
If you take nothing I say seriously because you disagree with MY opinions, that's one thing. But I didn't appreciate the reference to T. It was unneccessary.
Now that I've said that, I'm going back to agreeing with you most of the time. No hard feelings, really. Just wanted to "air" that, however.
If someone just didn't like one of my bump friends I could still be friends with them.
If someone harassed and belittled my bump friend like some on here do I couldn't be their friend...although it would have more to do with their character.
This seems like a silley juvenile question. Just sayin.
well it is something I have observed, juvenile or not it happens so why not discuss it?
Vuja, I have no problem with you whatsoever. We differ in opinions sometimes, but whatever "issues" we've had don't prevent me from reading your posts and most of the time agreeing with you. I mean that.
That being said, I think it's highly ironic that you bring this up this week. It was you who called me out last week for being "birds of a feather" with T, even though I've NEVER called anyone's LO ugly, talked about mentally challenged children, etc. Despite having at one time been "e-friends" with T, I've called her to the carpet on all of those statements. And yet, you still judged me as her equal and basically said you take nothing I say seriously because I was nice to her.
If you take nothing I say seriously because you disagree with MY opinions, that's one thing. But I didn't appreciate the reference to T. It was unneccessary.
Now that I've said that, I'm going back to agreeing with you most of the time. No hard feelings, really. Just wanted to "air" that, however.
Thank you for bringing this up, really. Your opinion of working mom's having a choice is an ignorant blanket statement that T WOULD MAKE. So, my comment of "birds of a feather flock together" was justified (in my opinion).
I don't dislike you because you were or still are friends with her, I dislike you because of your opinion about working mothers. I do agree with you on a lot of things but that just really hits a raw nerve with me (as I have mentioned).
Re: CLICKY: BUMP FRIENDS
This seems like a silley juvenile question. Just sayin.
why is it juvenile? I'm a actually interested in seeing the results.
well it is something I have observed, juvenile or not it happens so why not discuss it?
Vuja, I have no problem with you whatsoever. We differ in opinions sometimes, but whatever "issues" we've had don't prevent me from reading your posts and most of the time agreeing with you. I mean that.
That being said, I think it's highly ironic that you bring this up this week. It was you who called me out last week for being "birds of a feather" with T, even though I've NEVER called anyone's LO ugly, talked about mentally challenged children, etc. Despite having at one time been "e-friends" with T, I've called her to the carpet on all of those statements. And yet, you still judged me as her equal and basically said you take nothing I say seriously because I was nice to her.
If you take nothing I say seriously because you disagree with MY opinions, that's one thing. But I didn't appreciate the reference to T. It was unneccessary.
Now that I've said that, I'm going back to agreeing with you most of the time. No hard feelings, really. Just wanted to "air" that, however.
If someone just didn't like one of my bump friends I could still be friends with them.
If someone harassed and belittled my bump friend like some on here do I couldn't be their friend...although it would have more to do with their character.
Thank you for bringing this up, really. Your opinion of working mom's having a choice is an ignorant blanket statement that T WOULD MAKE. So, my comment of "birds of a feather flock together" was justified (in my opinion).
I don't dislike you because you were or still are friends with her, I dislike you because of your opinion about working mothers. I do agree with you on a lot of things but that just really hits a raw nerve with me (as I have mentioned).