I just wanted to update that we basically aren't sure why I am cramping so badly. Since it seems to get better when I lay down and worse when I am up my midwife has me on bedrest for a few days. : ( it is quite hard to run a daycare and take care of a toddler and my house while laying down. I had to enlist help from my dad and MIL and I am hating every minute
Re: Bedrest
Ugh good luck, I found the first 2 days where the worst.