I liked it better when my husband didn't know

itsmevkb

I honestly liked it better when my husband was clueless about my cycles, when we needed to have sex vs just wanting to have sex, when I would be testing, etc.  Even when we did our IUIs and IVF in the past he remained basically clueless. 

Now, however, he's all over everything and it's driving me crazy.  I guess I would rather the disappointment of testing and getting a negative be all mine rather than him having to deal with it.  Not that he didn't always realize that months and months went by without a pregnancy announcement but it wasn't like it is now where he's counting down the days until I can test.

It's weird that I'm very open regarding our issues and yet this is one thing in which I'd like the details kept from my husband.

SeaSoul

That's interesting b/c I have the opposite experience.  DH doesn't ask where I am in my cycle, when I plan to test, or any of that.  All he really wants/needs to know is the end result.  And I have thought that I would rather have him be more interested in everything along the way...want to trade husbands??