In a BP/SP relationship, CAN a BP pull rank? Should a BP pull rank??
We have DS 95% of the time, so I do truly see us as his parents. We make the decisions and deal with all of the follow through. ExH and I send emails back and forth and discuss things, but he doesn't really try to have a say-so. So..it's me and DH.
We agree...I'd say... 98% of the time. But that other 2% I sometimes feel like saying "this is MY call." I don't. But sometimes I feel like it! I guess I have enough respect for DH as a good dad that I wouldn't pull that card.
It might be more of a SAHM thing than a BP thing. I'm not sure. Or maybe I'm just a control freak.