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Facebook Slap in the Face (motherhood mentioned)

jamielynnohiojamielynnohio member
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This is the status of so many of my contacts on FB right now...

 " IT'S MOMMY week... post this and the first date of the first day U were A mommy!"

Makes my heart hurt!

Married '02, TTC May '05

Dx -Ute cancer, DOR from cancer treatments, and embryo quality issues. NOV 2010 CANCER FREE
2005-2011= 3 Rounds of Clomid, 5 IUI's, 3 IVF's- ALL BFN's
After 7yrs TTC, 5yrs of ute cancer, and 11 failed IF treatments, we got a surprise BFP! So thankful!

Gemma Grace born 09/30/12

Phillipians 4:6,7

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  • Yellow_DaisyYellow_Daisy

    Ick!

    Seriously that makes me ill to read.  But then again a lot of those status updates drive me nuts, it's so contrived.

    TTC since 8/2004
    Me - DX Hashimoto's Disease, Hypothyroid, Rheumatoid Arthritis
    DH - DX Azoospermia - Sertoli Cell Syndrome
    DS-IUI #1-4 BFN IVF #1 - BFP! It's a boy!!!
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  • stillwaiting12stillwaiting12
    You're not alone!!!  I have been dodging these the last few days as well!!
    6/28/10: Lost our sweet baby Addyston at 18wk 1day to pPROM 7/24/11: Michael William born at 24wk 2d due to IC after an emergent cerclage at 18wks, 4wk home BR and 2 weeks hospital BR. Grow strong our little Miracle! 9/17/11: Michael joined his sister in heaven after 8 amazing weeks with us on earth. He fought a very hard fight but NEC was too much for him in the end. Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers Lilypie Pregnancy tickers
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  • halfnhalfhalfnhalf member
    I have been seeing that same message on FB also... ick!  (even if I were already a mom, I'd still think this was stupid!)
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  • cogbotcogbot member
    I don't want to even look at Facebook, because this bothers me so much. 
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  • Sunshine05Sunshine05 member
    Ick!
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  • jamielynnohiojamielynnohio member
    I don't enjoy that others struggle but glad I'm not alone, ya know? Thnx girls. xoxo
    Married '02, TTC May '05

    Dx -Ute cancer, DOR from cancer treatments, and embryo quality issues. NOV 2010 CANCER FREE
    2005-2011= 3 Rounds of Clomid, 5 IUI's, 3 IVF's- ALL BFN's
    After 7yrs TTC, 5yrs of ute cancer, and 11 failed IF treatments, we got a surprise BFP! So thankful!

    Gemma Grace born 09/30/12

    Phillipians 4:6,7

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  • vanessagorcvanessagorc member

    Im sorry u are sad.  I think these things are soooo cheesey.  It makes me sad that people need a facebook status update to feel good.

    LAME

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  • scooterqscooterq member
    Ugh, very lame!Ick!
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  • MrsRich0226MrsRich0226
    Boo!  I hate crap like that!
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  • amcrdamcrd member

    So tired of reading these status updates! Think I'm going to put on mine

    Wish I could be so lucky

    I don't hate on those that are fortunate enough to be mommies...I just don't want to see it ALL over FB!

     

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  • kthappy76kthappy76
    lame, there are so many baby/mom related chain posts like this all.the.time.  Enough w/Babybook.
    TTK 9/06 / TTC 10/08 / Twins 12/11 / Life Blog
    5 REs + 3 surgical hysteroscopies for septum/lap + 3 failed IUIs
    IVF w/ICSI/AH & acu = BFP!, unexplained spontaneous m/c @ 8w2d (our little girl),
    FET w/acu = BFP!, B/G twins!, lost MP @19w, dx w/funneling cervix @20w,
    twins nearly lost to IC @21w, saved by rescue cerclage, 17P & 16w of bedrest
    Our twins born @36w4d via CS when A came foot first

    Thankful for every day

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  • Amie8301Amie8301
    I saw that too! Ugh, how annoying!
    Crohn's resulting in colectomy with J-Pouch surgery in 2000/2001.
    TTC since August 2008
    IVF#1: BFFN; IVF#2: BFN; FET with new RE: BFN
    IVF#3: ER 1/15; ET 1/20; Beta#1 1/29: 339!
    Twins girls born via c/s at 37w/3d!!
    "Let it go, this too shall pass."
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  • psyckpsyck member
    I'm very tempted to put the date that we adopted our dog. Hey, she knows me as Mommy!
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  • jamielynnohiojamielynnohio member
    i agree ladies. I commented on one of the girls that posted that just this, "sniffles". I then went to my page and I posted a song/video about infertility from you tube. Funny noone commented or reposted that as their status!
    Married '02, TTC May '05

    Dx -Ute cancer, DOR from cancer treatments, and embryo quality issues. NOV 2010 CANCER FREE
    2005-2011= 3 Rounds of Clomid, 5 IUI's, 3 IVF's- ALL BFN's
    After 7yrs TTC, 5yrs of ute cancer, and 11 failed IF treatments, we got a surprise BFP! So thankful!

    Gemma Grace born 09/30/12

    Phillipians 4:6,7

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