Confession: my boys aren't particuarlly interested in toys and every mile stone seems to involve using toys as incentive. (Interested in people, yes. Toys, no.) I, of course, am convinced that their little brains are mush because I didn't shake enough stuff at them while on maternity leave and daycare Julie doesn't have time to play with just my kids all day. You can imagine the amount of googling I've done to assess the damage I've created.
Anyway, they now stare at the mirror hanging on the bouncy seat and the animals hanging from their car seats. Not much reaching though, but at least they notice it. I'm thinking surrounding them with toys with a jumperoo or exersaucer might be good. I know they're strong enough for at least a little bit. Plus, if we're being honestly, I'd love anything to entertain them that doesn't require being held constantly.
So, did your kids like them? How old were they when you used them? Have I totally failed as a mother by not already owning one?
I see Craigslist has quite a few, but I wanted advice from the experts before I contacted anyone. TIA.
Re: Jumperoo/exersaucer- do your kids like it? What age?
Mine loved their Jumperoos. My pedi said 4m is the very youngest age that jumperoos or exersaucers are OK, so we started at that age and limited it to 20 minutes at a time/30 minutes a day.
Man I miss the Jumperoo days.
At 3-5 months, my girls' favorite toy/entertainer was our play mats with the arches that you can attach toys to. They loved the hanging toys that they could bat at and chew on. We ended up with one upstairs and one down because they were used so much. J still enjoys it sometimes. They both also loved the mobile projector in their room and it still works for 5 minutes of entertainment while I run to the bathroom.
I think they were around 6 months before they really got into the exersaucer and jumparoo.
Our ped is not a big fan. Nor was the woman who did the girls' 6mos developmental follow-up. Girls were born at 33w4d, and that may play a part in their advice. Audrey had a little high muscle tone.
Ped said not to put them in toys like that until they could pull up on their own. For us that was like 9mos. And by that point they were having enough fun on their own rolling/crawling all over the place.
Not saying you shouldn't use them, but just don't overdo it. If they're in too long I hear it interferes with learning to walk properly.
I never got a playmat for mine, and that's one thing I wished I'd had at that age!
Don't worry, they WILL reach for the things hanging in their faces!
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Sophia loved the Rainforest Jumperoo and Lily loved the 123 Tear For Me Exersaucer. I am glad we got one of each. Now that they are mobile, they don't want to be in them at all, but we got a good 4 months out of them!
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We have one exersaucer (Evenflo) that they take turns in it. I don't keep them in it for long periods of time, like 15 minutes. About 30 minutes a day and some days we don't use it at all. My kids still enjoy it and they are 10 months (8 months adjusted).
We don't have a jumperoo.
We have a jumperoo and an exersaucer. We started the boys in them at about 4 or 4.5 months. They enjoy them, and I love having them in one place while I do things like pee, or eat breakfast. I don't watch the clock, but they do get tired of them, so they probably spend about 30-45 minutes in them in the morning and then a few minutes here and there later in the day.
Putting them in those toys changed my life, I'm not going to lie-- up until then, my son Benjamin wanted to be held constantly.
But you have absolutely not failed them as a mother by not having them! I never had one and I managed to grow up just fine.