For a boy - John William (John - brother & grandfathers name - William - fathers name) I think we would probably go with the nn Jack. ALthough, when he is born maybe we'd change our mind and stick with John/Johnny.
for a girl - Ella - after my great--great grandmother (Laura Ella) My great grandmother was (Laura Marie) and I was named after her.
We aren't set on a middle name though.
these three would be family names.
Ella Marie - Marie - is my mn but imo it's kinda just a filler.
Ella Cate/Kate - My mother in law is Kathleen : My husband doesn't really care for Kate though.
Ella Suzanne - My mom is Susan
These two I just like.
Ella Caroline
Ella Claire
Hopefully, we're havig a boy so we won't have to worry about names - we're pretty set on John William.
Re: Opinions
John William is a good name! Strong and classic.
For a girl, I love Ella Catherine or Ella Caroline.
John William is a great name! And while I like the NN Jack, it IS really common as a FN on its own right now---as well as a NN for the incredibly popular Jackson. I'd just call him John. It's less common (ironically).
Ella is lovely. I like Ella Kate (though if YH doesn't, you shouldn't use it) and Ella Caroline.