s/o of undressing in front of kids

aprilprincess

what do you think of your mother or mil showering or dressing in front of the kids?

what about your dad or fil?

LisaK2b

No other man other than DH should ever be undressing in front of the girls.  And even with DH, there's an age thing (I think it's 3, he thinks it's 2...so it's his body).  It's one thing if they took off their shirt and changed shirt, but nothing related to the bottom.  That's inappropriate and why would they be doing it because surely, they wouldn't be doing it with any grown-ups in the room.  Maybe it's different if you have boys...I don't know.

My mom changes in front of the girls all the time.  I have no issue with it.  

aprilprincess

DH doesn't even get naked in front of Addie, but that's his own thing. It wouldn't have bothered me before age 3. so no way would I want my fil or dad doing it. (although Addie did once tell us grandpa was a nudie-however it turned out he only had his shirt off).

It would bug me if my mil did, but I'm not sure why. changing clothes is ok, but showering is too much to me. it doens't bother me as much if my own mom did.

jen5-03

I'm fine with it. DD has showered with MIL once. I don't think MIL is comfortable with it though, but more because she's worried about making sure DD doesn't fall or something. DD has showered with my mom several times and they are both fine with it.

Sorry, dad doesn't get to get nekkid in front of kids. I don't have a FIL.

BritanyV

IMO, that's just creepy.