Don't usually post her

Clery

but I all of a sudden got the urge to share some love. I had two losses in 2008 and did not conceive until last Dec. I had full re testing and they found nothing. I remember how sad and depressed I was all the time. I just wanted to say hang in there and keep your chin up. I have been there, I pray you all get your little ones no matter how you do it. Big hugs!

Aubs13

Gee, thanks.

suntoto

Hi Clery,

I am so happy for you that you had a beautiful baby girl.  I am glad she is doing well, but still sad that after 4 years TTC, I am still here.  

 

CashewsMommy

Thanks a ton.... we'll "hang in there" I guess. Does that rank up there with "relaxing" too?

jmhuff

Thanks! That was nice of you to take the time out and do that!

JayandTay09

BabyTrippin

Um, ok.

mandy6418

{Sigh}

Clery

suntoto:

Hi Clery,

I am so happy for you that you had a beautiful baby girl.  I am glad she is doing well, but still sad that after 4 years TTC, I am still here.  

 

Hi Luv! I will send you all the positive vibes I have, 

suntoto

CashewsMommy:

Thanks a ton.... we'll "hang in there" I guess. Does that rank up there with "relaxing" too?

Really?!? 

Clery did "do her time" and is well aware of the hardships of TTC, she was a member of this board a lot longer than you.   I get how it can "burn" to have someone who is now on PAL come back and say things like this, but some people gain hope from such stories. 

AutumnLeavesFall

Hummmmm....

mandy6418

suntoto:

CashewsMommy:

Thanks a ton.... we'll "hang in there" I guess. Does that rank up there with "relaxing" too?

Really?!? 

Clery did "do her time" and is well aware of the hardships of TTC, she was a member of this board a lot longer than you.   I get how it can "burn" to have someone who is now on PAL come back and say things like this, but some people gain hope from such stories. 

This is true. I sometimes get bitter too. I do appreciate her thoughts for TTCAL.

Clery

Sorry if this rubs some the wrong way, I just wanted to let you know I was thinking about you and sending good vibes.

TheGregory's07

Clery:

Sorry if this rubs some the wrong way, I just wanted to let you know I was thinking about you and sending good vibes.

I an glad to hear stories with happy endings, but next time add some kind of warning to the subject line might help.

mandy6418

Clery:

Sorry if this rubs some the wrong way, I just wanted to let you know I was thinking about you and sending good vibes.

Thanks for the thoughts and vibes. It is appreciated.

millejj1

Thanks for coming by to show some support!

rjl07

Hi Clery!  Congrats on your LO.  Hope you are both doing well.  Thanks for stopping by with the good wishes.

 

CashewsMommy

suntoto:

CashewsMommy:

Thanks a ton.... we'll "hang in there" I guess. Does that rank up there with "relaxing" too?

Really?!? 

Clery did "do her time" and is well aware of the hardships of TTC, she was a member of this board a lot longer than you.   I get how it can "burn" to have someone who is now on PAL come back and say things like this, but some people gain hope from such stories. 

You're right. You can understand how they can burn, and it burned. Especially seeing a ticker for an almost 2 month old when all I can think of is how I'm supposed to have a 4 month old right now.

She might have been a member of the board a lot longer than me, but that really doesn't matter. Does that mean I don't understand the hardships of TTC?

Some people gain hope from goats too. Doesn't mean I have to accept it.

ColindaP

::sigh::

I know you mean well. I do. I remember you from when I joined TTCAL last year.

But really. This is like a patronizing pat on the head. 

shanna82

ColindaP:

::sigh::

I know you mean well. I do. I remember you from when I joined TTCAL last year.

But really. This is like a patronizing pat on the head. 

I agree. Nice thought, but just as bad as goats can be. But I'm glad you have your sticky baby.

TeacherVicky

shanna82:

ColindaP:

::sigh::

I know you mean well. I do. I remember you from when I joined TTCAL last year.

But really. This is like a patronizing pat on the head. 

I agree. Nice thought, but just as bad as goats can be. But I'm glad you have your sticky baby.

This and this. Especially when I remember you from the boards from my first pregnancy.

PrincessDi80

I don't know you, I am sorry you were every a part of this board, and I am happy you have your LO.  But for someone who does not know you this came off as very patronizing, I know it was well intentioned, but it is not what you say but how you say it. 

rock-elle

oh lord, take your "love" amd shove it..

suntoto

CashewsMommy:

suntoto:

CashewsMommy:

Thanks a ton.... we'll "hang in there" I guess. Does that rank up there with "relaxing" too?

Really?!? 

Clery did "do her time" and is well aware of the hardships of TTC, she was a member of this board a lot longer than you.   I get how it can "burn" to have someone who is now on PAL come back and say things like this, but some people gain hope from such stories. 

You're right. You can understand how they can burn, and it burned. Especially seeing a ticker for an almost 2 month old when all I can think of is how I'm supposed to have a 4 month old right now.

She might have been a member of the board a lot longer than me, but that really doesn't matter. Does that mean I don't understand the hardships of TTC?

Some people gain hope from goats too. Doesn't mean I have to accept it.

Your original response, Cashew, was just plain rude.  I don't care if you gain hope from goats or not, but to imply that someone did not do their time, is beyond RUDE.  Do you realize that one day you  will probably join the PgAL and PAL boards??  They DON'T forget who is rude.  Just saying.

maddiemoon43

suntoto:

CashewsMommy:

suntoto:

CashewsMommy:

Thanks a ton.... we'll "hang in there" I guess. Does that rank up there with "relaxing" too?

Really?!? 

Clery did "do her time" and is well aware of the hardships of TTC, she was a member of this board a lot longer than you.   I get how it can "burn" to have someone who is now on PAL come back and say things like this, but some people gain hope from such stories. 

You're right. You can understand how they can burn, and it burned. Especially seeing a ticker for an almost 2 month old when all I can think of is how I'm supposed to have a 4 month old right now.

She might have been a member of the board a lot longer than me, but that really doesn't matter. Does that mean I don't understand the hardships of TTC?

Some people gain hope from goats too. Doesn't mean I have to accept it.

Your original response, Cashew, was just plain rude.  I don't care if you gain hope from goats or not, but to imply that someone did not do their time, is beyond RUDE.  Do you realize that one day you  will probably join the PgAL and PAL boards??  They DON'T forget who is rude.  Just saying.

I don't see how she implied this. 

I am sure OP did not intend to rub people the wrong way, but it's not exactly what I expected to read either when I opened this.  Good intentions or not, I like the word that PPs have chosen - "patronizing."  I hope we all get BFPs soon and can get to know OP on PAL too, but for now most of us don't know her on here.  Maybe this would have been better posted on TTCAL6+?

csquared426

Clery:

Sorry if this rubs some the wrong way, I just wanted to let you know I was thinking about you and sending good vibes.

Thanks Clery - I remember you from when I first started on the board. Congrats on your little girl.

CashewsMommy

suntoto:

CashewsMommy:

suntoto:

CashewsMommy:

Thanks a ton.... we'll "hang in there" I guess. Does that rank up there with "relaxing" too?

Really?!? 

Clery did "do her time" and is well aware of the hardships of TTC, she was a member of this board a lot longer than you.   I get how it can "burn" to have someone who is now on PAL come back and say things like this, but some people gain hope from such stories. 

You're right. You can understand how they can burn, and it burned. Especially seeing a ticker for an almost 2 month old when all I can think of is how I'm supposed to have a 4 month old right now.

She might have been a member of the board a lot longer than me, but that really doesn't matter. Does that mean I don't understand the hardships of TTC?

Some people gain hope from goats too. Doesn't mean I have to accept it.

Your original response, Cashew, was just plain rude.  I don't care if you gain hope from goats or not, but to imply that someone did not do their time, is beyond RUDE.  Do you realize that one day you  will probably join the PgAL and PAL boards??  They DON'T forget who is rude.  Just saying.

I never implyed that someone did not do their time. Please tell me how I did that, so I do not do that again. I agree that it would be rude of me to imply that.

You were telling me that since she was on the board longer than I have been on this board, she's superior to me. That's what I got out of you saying she "was a member of this board a lot longer than you." What I was saying, is that it doesn't matter how long someone spent on this board... we all went and are going through sh!t. I don't care if you were here a week, a month or years. We all did our time here.

In my original response I was just voicing that I didn't like her puppies and rainbows telling me that everything is going to be okay.