Why am I upset about this?

katpres06

So I'm feeling like a sn@tchcake right about now, but for some reason I'm really annoyed at my DH. Normally I couldn't say anything bad, but I'm actually fuming at work.... And I had a really long post typed out, but I'll just get down to the nitty gritty....

I'm working today, which I normally don't work Mondays and neither does DH. This morning, because he couldn't get ahold of his mom or sister (who are also off today), he took DS to daycare because he had to clean off his chainsaws.... Then he told me, that like 10 minutes after he dropped DS off, his mom and sister were going to go get him.

So you're telling me you couldn't give them like half an hour to get back to you. I hate the fact that DS was at daycare for like half an hour, it seems so stupid to me. His reasoning was because he was going to have grease all over his hands.... I get it, but AYFKM - that couldn't have waited?!?

Vent over ..... thanks for letting me overreact....

 

sistrkate

Sometimes, I think men just do not think.  Literally, their brains have a short circuit in there.  I fully understand being frustrated over needing a man to get a freaking clue   

Now take a deep breath -- Mondays don't last forever, thankfully.

johnandkristin

I agree with Katie. I think men are just wired differently...not giving them the excuse to just be stupid or anything like that, they just don't think like we do:)

At least now your little guy won't be in daycare all day:)

 

cherryghost

I'm sorry. PP is right-men just do not think sometimes. It's very annoying and makes me want to pull out my hair.

Megs&Nick

I think you're so upset because, as mothers, we are used to rearranging our schedules, giving up things we'd like to do, adhearing to a schedule, etc all for our children.  It has become second nature to us to give up our own ideas for the day if it doesn't fit in with our child's needs on that particular day. It is annyoning when others don't do the same because we do it so easily.

Hang in there!

jerseygirl81

What Katie said! I think that they just don't see things the same way we do sometimes, especially when it comes to kids.

I know that's very unsociological of me to say, but it's true.

Meg41208

jerseygirl81:

What Katie said! I think that they just don't see things the same way we do sometimes, especially when it comes to kids.

I totally agree.  

Missbollinger

because they lack patience and when they get the minds set on something it happens NOW...but its ok, we all have moments where we want to bonk them on the head with a small sledge hammer

identicaltwins2be

Megs&Nick:

I think you're so upset because, as mothers, we are used to rearranging our schedules, giving up things we'd like to do, adhearing to a schedule, etc all for our children.  It has become second nature to us to give up our own ideas for the day if it doesn't fit in with our child's needs on that particular day. It is annyoning when others don't do the same because we do it so easily.

Hang in there!

Very well said

Miller238

Megs&Nick:

I think you're so upset because, as mothers, we are used to rearranging our schedules, giving up things we'd like to do, adhearing to a schedule, etc all for our children.  It has become second nature to us to give up our own ideas for the day if it doesn't fit in with our child's needs on that particular day. It is annyoning when others don't do the same because we do it so easily.

Hang in there!

You couldn't have worded it better!

Superchicy

Megs&Nick:

I think you're so upset because, as mothers, we are used to rearranging our schedules, giving up things we'd like to do, adhearing to a schedule, etc all for our children.  It has become second nature to us to give up our own ideas for the day if it doesn't fit in with our child's needs on that particular day. It is annyoning when others don't do the same because we do it so easily.

Hang in there!

Very well put!

sprads

OK, I was just going to say something similar to the 3 previousl posters - nicely stated MegsnNick

katpres06

sigh.... I know these things. Boy do I know that, DH is a classic male (how about that, Jersey, for being unsociological!).

Apparently he decided to go pick him up, probably because he could sense the annoyance in my voice?!?

But come on man, next time just don't tell me!

warriormomerin

Just for today and just for you cuz you're special. I typically keep my trap shut when it comes to posts about husbands. 

Lyons_in_2007

Megs&Nick:

I think you're so upset because, as mothers, we are used to rearranging our schedules, giving up things we'd like to do, adhearing to a schedule, etc all for our children.  It has become second nature to us to give up our own ideas for the day if it doesn't fit in with our child's needs on that particular day. It is annyoning when others don't do the same because we do it so easily.

Hang in there!

This x a trillion!