My DH and I have been going back and forth about having another child and mostly the indecision has been on his side. Anyway, after two years of being in limbo about this, I decided to ask him this morning. He basically said, let's wait a couple more months. I said no, I don't want to wait any longer and we just need to make a decision and move on. He really feels that it would be stressful for us financially, so the decision has been made. We are done. I cried a bit this morning. I am having dinner with a couple of friends tomorrow night and one of them is pregnant with her second and she is having a boy. Therefore, I will give her my DS's baby clothes. I think it will be hard for awhile, but I need to move on. I hate indeciveness and to be honest it has been torture, thinking that he may come around. I guess I am posting this because I am in some need of some comfort and support.