So, AF arrived in no uncertain terms at 6 am (I even took a hpt just to be sure it wasn't spotting). I'm very disappointed of course and I would be more upset, but the upside is that my RE thinks we should go right ahead with another femara/IUI cycle, and this time around I can fly DH in (the timing works perfectly for the one weekend he can travel to be with me this fall). At least I get to feel proactive and we get to do a "live" IUI, or so we hope (fingers crossed that I respond as well again to the femara as I did this last time around).
I'm glad I wasn't temping. It was better to just wake up and have AF already arriving than wait for her after a temperature drop. And I'm glad I haven't been frantically testing since I last did at 10dpo. It was actually nice to keep feeling like "well, maybe" instead of hoping the hpt was wrong. I hope I remember this for the next 2ww.
And I am having a real drink tonight.
Re: Update (BFN)
I'm sorry you got a BFN but could you hold on to AF for a little while. Tie her up if you have to. And if nothing else works give her a bottle of benedryle make her drink the whole thing. It wont kill her. That heffer never dies.
Enjoy your drink!
so sorry. I hate that AF meanie! It's good to hear you are looking toward the next one and can enjoy a cocktail in the meantime!
-Pix
I'm so sorry.
Enjoy that drink tonight!
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So sorry about the BFN! AF sucks! Hopefully the next one will take!