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Update: Embryo watch 2010 - we're done : (

babygirlpriestbabygirlpriest
in TTC After a Loss 6 Months+

I'm heartbroken... it's over.

All five embryos were genetically abnormal. We have no hope that future IVF cycles would produce different results. For some unknown reason DH and I are prone to chrom. abnormalities.

Our ttc journey is over.

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  • GuppyAmyGuppyAmy member
    I'm so sorry and somehow those words don't feel adequate. *hugs*
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  • jen629jen629 member
    I don't even know what to say without crying over here for you ...I am so so sorry sweetie :(
    Hold On ....Michael Buble
    MTHFR 2 copies of C677t mutation homozygous 2/2010
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  • RunSchwartzRunRunSchwartzRun
    I wish I could express how sorry I am.  You and your DH will be in my prayers.  ((hugs))
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  • hbkiseshbkises member
    i'm so sorry hun...
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  • CarrieLeigh84CarrieLeigh84 member

    I'm so incredibly sorry, KP. I'm heartbroken for you, I can't even fathom what you're feeling.

    Much love to you and your DH

    Stillbirth at 23w6d on Sept, 22, 2008 M/C at 5 weeks June 14, 2010 My miracle, James Frederick born May 2, 2011 via C-section
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  • babes12babes12 member
    i'm so sorry, i don't even know what to say.  Do you have any other meetings w/ your RE/OB?  i'm so sorry.  (((HUGS)))
    Image and video hosting by TinyPic 8.15.07 NATHAN 6.13.09 - 6.14.09 WYATT born 32w3d Gone too soon, RIP. 4.21.10 BFP - missed m/c - D&C on 5.27.10. 1.31.11 BFP - 1st cycle IUI + Follistim + Trigger (2 mature follies)Beta 1 @ 13dpiui: 199 Beta 2 @ 15dpiui: 527 10.7.11 ELIANA(Ellie)ROSE (39w3d)Team Green turned Team Pink - VBAC & ALL NATURAL 6lbs 11oz 19 &1/2in
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  • KristysRedBarnKristysRedBarn
    I'm so so sorry.  My thoughts are with you guys as you sort through this.  Huge hugs.
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    April 2011 CP @ 5 weeks
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  • babygirlpriestbabygirlpriest

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    i'm so sorry, i don't even know what to say.  Do you have any other meetings w/ your RE/OB?  i'm so sorry.  (((HUGS)))

    We have an 'exit interview' with our RE just basically to tie up lose ends.

    The PGS testing doc. was amazing. He gave us his cell phone # in case we wanted to call us over the weekend. He also offered to do egg and sperm testing free if we wanted to consider donor egg or sperm.

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  • redstars93redstars93 member
    I am so so sorry :(
    Momma to three boys: Henry - 4yo Alex - 18mo Jack - born 2/23/12 at 20w due to ruptured uterus (previa and accreta resulting in hysterectomy) He only lived here on Earth for an hour, but he will live in our hearts forever. m/c #1: sept '09, m/c #2: july '10
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  • triple_sevenstriple_sevens member
    Kristin, this is utterly heartbreaking news. I know you need time to mourn and grieve this latest horrible loss. I hope you can find some renewed strength and optimism in the future, whether through adoption or some other means. I'll be thinking of you and praying for you both.
    BFP #1 10/17/09: missed m/c at 7 weeks; BFP #2 10/22/10: chemical pregnancy; BFP #3: 1/28/11

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  • Scout05Scout05 member
    I hate this so much. I am so sorry, honey.
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  • xleslieraexxleslieraex member
    I am heartbroken for you. I am so sorry you had to make this hard decision. ::hugs:: GL in your future endeavors. I am so sorry.
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  • millejj1millejj1 member
    I'm so sorry.
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  • AppleRidgeAppleRidge member
    I have been thinking about you guys nonstop.  I hope you guys will find a path to happiness, some way or another.  You're an amazing person, and I know your DH must be, too. 
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    4 early losses 2009, 2010, 2015.  Baby #1 born 2/13/11.  
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  • SweetieD21SweetieD21 member
    Nothing I can say will make you feel any better or take your pain away but just know that I'm praying for you and sending huge hugs your way.
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  • Amanda78Amanda78 member
    I am so sorry. I wish I knew the right words to offer comfort. You and your DH are in my thoughts.
    BFP 4/23/09. D&E 7/17/09 16W5D. BFP #2 3/10/10. EDD 11/15/10 Babycakes was born 11/5/10! Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
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  • owenstowenst
    I'm so, so sorry.  I have no other words for you, but you and your DH are in my thoughts. {{hugs}}
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  • ERICA21779ERICA21779
    I am so very and truly sorry   ((((hugs))))  There are no words to acurately express how sorry I am.   Would donor egss or donor sperm ever be an option if they found that this would work??
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  • suntotosuntoto member
    My heart is breaking for you!
    Forever buddy to Angelica; Natural Miscarriage Jan. 2008 @ 11 weeks; 2 years of BFFN's; DX: Unexplained IF (RE thinks IF is due to tubal issues); IUI #1 & 2= BFFN; IUI#3 = BFP, resulted in Cornual ectopic pregnancy; IUI #4 - 6 =BFFN; Our next endeavor... IVF. 1 grade AA embryo transferred on 4-23-2011 and 5 frosties. BFP Abby born 1/5/2012

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  • JuJuBe3JuJuBe3
    I'm so sorry.  Huge hugs to you and DH!
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  • lunatwolunatwo member
    Oh my gosh, I am so, so sorry.  I know how it feels since I am going through something similar.  Great big hugs to you.  Once the dust settles a little I hope you come up with a game plan because there are still options for having a family for you.  Hang in there.  (((HUGS)))
    4/08 BFP resulted in m/c
    8/08 BFP resulted in m/c
    3/09 Polyp removed and dx MTHFR (both copies)
    6 Clomid cycles, all BFN
    5/09 IUI#1 with Clomid=BFN
    6/09 IUI#2 with Clomid=BFN
    8/09 IUI#3 with Clomid=BFN
    IVF#1 = BFN
    IVF#2 = BFN
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  • ColindaPColindaP member
    I made the mistake of opening this as I sit here in court and I'm having a really hard time not tearing up right now. I'm so, so sorry hon. You know we're still here to support you,no matter where your path leads. ((hugs))
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  • mdm2137mdm2137
    I'm so sorry. ((hugs))

    BFP 12/18/2009. HB 1/4/2010. NO HB 1/18/2010. D&C 1/19/2010
    April 2011 IUI #1 BFN. High FSH and other issues.
    May 2011 Chose to build our family through adoption
    September 2011 Actively waiting for a match
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  • Clerk9Clerk9 member
    I'm so, so sorry.  There aren't words for what you're going through.  My thoughts & best wishes are with you & DH.  
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  • celestej619celestej619
    (((hugs))) I am so very sorry hun.
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  • bbhalphenbbhalphen member
    K, I'm so, so sorry.  I don't have the right words.  Yall are in my thoughts and prayers.  Lots of love and big hugs.
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  • PeetiePiePeetiePie
    I'm so incredibly sorry dear.  This is just heartbreaking.  Many many hugs and much love to you and your DH. 
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  • HugginAngelHugginAngel
    Oh hon I'm sooooooooo very sorry to hear this. :::HUGZ:::
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  • SonadoraSonadora member
    I am so very sorry.
    BFP #1 9/23/09. Missed MC 10w3d D&C 11/3/09.

    BFP #2 4/13/10. Bridget born 12/28/10

    BFP #3 Finn born 8/11/15


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  • maceymay1816maceymay1816 member

    There aren't words for this circumstance, when the door is shut on your dreams it is nothing but heartbreaking.  You and your DH are in my thoughts and prayers today. 

     

    Married 8/23/09 Dx: Endometriosis mc 2003, mc 2005, mc Oct. 2009 and ectopic pg Feb. 2010 Baby Girl Gracie Mae born 5 weeks early on 7/6/11. Baby boy JT born full term on 7/5/12. We are blessed!
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  • JayandTay09JayandTay09
    Oh hun...I am so sorry - yet that doesn't nearly seem enough...I wish I had the words....Sending you lots of hugs!
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  • BabyMimiBabyMimi
    I'm sorry just doesn't seem enough. I am crying for you. Please let us know if you need anything.
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  • surfergirlkonasurfergirlkona
    I love you and I am so very sorry.  You and DH have been in my thoughts all weekend.  I hope that you both can find another path to fulfilling your dreams.  
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  • michroccmichrocc member
    I'm so sorry, hon. My thoughts are with you and your DH...and I'm sending lots of love and prayers your way. ::::::huge, huge hugs::::::
    BFP#1 10/19/09, m/c 12/5/09, BFP#2 2/03/12, m/c 2/12/12, BFP#3 3/18/13, LO born 11/22/13

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  • TravelinMamaTravelinMama member
    I'm so sorry, and so heartbroken for you. :(
    Marie, wife to Ron, mom to DS
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  • kew243kew243 member
    Oh no.  I am so incredibly sorry.  I don't have words.  ((hugs))
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  • johannaknipjohannaknip
    I'm sorry seems so small and wrong. I'm so, so sorry love. (((hugesquishyhugs)))
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  • jesmckennajesmckenna member
    I wish their were words to make you feel better.  I'm so sorry.
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  • Olive44Olive44 member
    I am so very sorry.  This breaks my heart.
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  • Aubs13Aubs13 member
    I am so very, very sorry.  I hope you and DH can find comfort in each other right now....I'll be thinking of you...
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