TTC After a Loss

need to but don't want to

When we were expecting our LO we had all the plaster repaired in our upstairs.  We started priming all the rooms and getting things ready.  We had to take time off with all the heat as our rooms do not have a/c upstairs and the humidity was too high, and then we miscarried

Its cooling back down and I need to get the rooms finished and start choosing colors to paint... I dread painting our LO's room.  I had it all planned out and it just seems so i dont know pointless right now.  Its hard to get motivated when the whole reason in the first place is not here. 

I hope and pray we get pregnant again soon so that the room will be filled with joy and purpose but for now its so hard to even muster up the energy to do it.  (of course I have 3 other rooms that have to be done as well... LOL)

BFP #1 04/05/10 EDD 12/11/10 Missed M/C 7w found out at 12w5d You're so missed LO BFP #2 11/27/10 EDD 08/07/11.. Diagnosed with IC 03/17/11 Cerclage put in place 03/21/11 Madilynn Mae born 7/26/11

Re: need to but don't want to

  • Good luck!
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  • I can understand how that would be hard. The room we'd planned as a nursery is now our storage room. I sort of don't want to do anything at all with it until we hopefully are expecting again.
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  • I see where that would be hard to get motivated. Sad I hope you are able to get it finished. That way when you hopefully get a bfp it will all be ready! *Hugs*
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  • I'm sorry.  :-(  The room we planned for our nursery has now also become a storage room, and I can't get up the motivation to clean it out either.  Good luck... just do what you can when you feel up to it!
    TTC since January 2010
    BFP 5/9/10. U/S - no heartbeat 6/2/10 (7 weeks). Induced miscarriage 6/7/10.
    Chemical pregnancies 12/2/10, 1/3/11, and 2/7/11.
    dx: RPL due to poor quality uterine lining; begin progesterone January 2011
    BFP 3/10/11. EDD 11/19/11. E arrived 11/15/11!

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  • I feel the exact same way about our house.  I hope you get your motivation soon!
    BFP #1 7/21/10; Dx EP 8/2/10 - lost right tube ~ Myomectomy to remove fibroids - 11/12/10 ~ BFP #2 - 2/8/11 (EDD - 10/21/11) ~ C-Section on 10/7/11 Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
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