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Mom update

She was supposed to be transported on Friday night, after an initial admissions interview.  She lied during the interview, and essentially minimized everything that had happened, as well as denying any sort of drug/alcohol problem.  The counselor she spoke with chose to take her word, rather than anything documented about her condition, so they refused to take her, saying she didn't have a problem.  Um, hello asshat, she tried to kill her husband.

So, she sat in jail.  Finally, this morning my dad was able to find a place that would take her.  Together, he and the nurse from the jail got it worked out.  She was transported to a facility this afternoon.  

One of the members of their church visited her yesterday, and was shocked by the sheer level of incapacitation she has now.  She is completely incapable of caring for herself, or forming any sort of coherent thought.  I'm really thinking that she has completely fried her brain from all of the years of abuse.  

It's sad really.  But honestly, I feel better tonight than I have in a week.  She's getting help.  Finally.  I hate that this is what it took to get there though.

Kill all my demons and my angels might die too. -Tennessee Williams

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Re: Mom update

  • ((Hugs)). I'm kind of a lurker, but I can't imagine what you're going through. Hang in there and just know that this is the best thing for her right now.
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  • Hugs!  I've been thinking of you - thanks for the update!
  • I'm shocked that the first place wouldn't take her in. That's nuts. But I'm so glad your dad found another place and I really, really hope it helps her.

    (((hugs)))

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    Alex (11/14/06) and Nate (5/25/10)
    "Want what you have, do what you can, be who you are." - Rev. Forrest Church
  • Ugh.  What an idiot that first person was. I'm glad your dad kept working and found somewhere for her.  And hugs to you - I can't imagine being in your shoes, but I hope you can find some peace knowing your dad/sis/yourself are safe from her and her (many forms of) abuse. 

     

  • ((hugs)) bubs. I'm still keeping all of you in my thoughts. I'm hoping this is what gets her the help she needs.
  • Oh, Bubbs! What a nightmare. That first counselor needs to be committed. What bullsh!t. However, I'm glad they were finally able to get your mother into a treatment facility. Hang in there! xoxo
    ~Erica, Mommy to Peyton 9/06 & Cullen 9/09
  • What an ordeal you have all been through. I am thinking of you and hoping that the outcome is all that you would hope for

    ((HUGS))

  • I'm so sorry, A.  But, you're right -- it's a good thing that she's getting the help she needs.

    I'm so sorry you've had to deal with all this.

  • Bubs, i am glad to hear that she is getting the help she needs.  I am so sorry you and your family are going through this.  ((hugs))
  • I am glad that she's getting some help and your family is getting some relief.

    DHs mom is in assisted living with dementia from a life of prescription drug and alcohol abuse. I hope that your mom improves.

    AKA KnittyB*tch
    DS - December 2006
    DD - December 2008

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  • I can only imagine the stress that you and your family are going through. (((HUGS)))
  • ((Hugs)) It sucks that you have to wait for loved ones to hit rock bottom before they're able or willing to get help. We went through some of that with my brother. Anyway, I hope that she's able to accept the help and make a recovery.
    Annalise Marie 05.29.06
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