Ugh DH!

rock-elle

I feel like this happens more often than not during FWP time, DH is downstairs playing Wii with BIL & SIL and he has to work the eve/overnight and I said I would go to a 6pm church service with a friend and he will probably be gone when I get back so it seems like no BD for me today and he knows this is FWP time!!  Why is he still playing??

I feel like my reproductive needs usually seem to take a back burner to these dumb video games, whether its the Wii or the online sh*t   He acts so nonchalantly about it too--he knows how important timing is!!!

 

TheGregory's07

What is FWP?

rock-elle

TheGregory's07:

What is FWP?

f*ck with purpose=baby making sex

Zed58

Ugh is right!!  DH is the same way.  I really don't think it's intentional, but it always seems like there is something else to do when my body is "ready" to make a baby.  So frustrating.  The fact that DH doesn't really get the whole woman's reproductive system all that well, doesn't help at anything.  I'm pretty sure he thinks that we can successfully get pg at any point throughout a cycle - even though I have made it clear SEVERAL times that this is not true.

kbel424

Ugh, that is frustrating! I would go right down there and say I need to talk to you, and let him know that he is needed right now. Video games can happen later, this cannot! Lol.... Maybe I'm too demanding on h!

MCH77

On Wed (the day before I got my +OPK), DH and I were heading to dinner.  I reminded him that it was FWP time.  He had several beers at dinner and was not able to.  I was annoyed... I said I told you about this.  He said... I thought you were kidding.  Why would I kid about this?  Where is the joke?

Boys are dumb (good thing they are cute).  Sorry you had to deal with that.

itsmegin

I feel your pain, well before we were TTC I got rejected for video games many times. It was definitely the main thing we fought about during our first year of marriage.

I don't have any advice, I know when my DH is absorbed in a video game I could walk in wearing sexy lingerie while making out with a supermodel and ask him to join us in a threesome and he would still probably ignore me for the game. Sorry I can't help but, I understand!

TeacherVicky

Ugh is right. I'm sorry. Have you talked to him about his nonchalance during FWP week?

AGFaso

Ohhh DH, ditch the game and FWP! Honestly, call him upstairs for a min, go down on him for 3 minutes, then jump on top...You'll be done in 5 min and the IL"s wil be none the wiser!

cherylanddoug

Whenever DH is into a video game I put on the lingerie that I never wear and a pair of heels. Then I go right to the game room that way and f*** him there...I don't think he realizes I am trying to get him off the video games.  I guess you can't do that with BIL and SIL there...but imagine if you did! 

shanna82

I'm sorry hon....you should try just going downstairs and throwing something at his head.  And then when he looks at you like you are BSC, just point to the bedroom and give him a look that will scare him into your pants!

 

sarahandadam1029

MCH77:

 

Boys are dumb (good thing they are cute).  Sorry you had to deal with that.

I was just thinking, "Boys are silly....but they are also dumb!"

Anyway...we haven't run into this problem yet this time around, but it did get to be a problem the first time we got pregnant.