For the inevitable DD

JuJuBe3

09-09-2010 at 9:31 PM

Graciestar Joined on 04-06-2010 1,258 Posts 25,550 Points --> My DD -->   First, let me say that my apology still stands as it is.. a sincere apology. I posted it last night and had it up for several hours.. 9 people responded either a thumbs up or a thank you. I appreiciated that. However, over 60 people viewed it and didnt even bother with it at all. Felt snubbed that all those people were all about flaming me but not so much for my apology And then I posted something totally not related to fertiltiy and no one person chose to respond. I deleted the apology thinking no one is going to care or even notice. I see how several people is all about flaming me today when suntoto asked about my DD. That was completely inappropriate... I apologized. Drop it already. You ladies are a wonderful support system. I really wanted to start over again... are you ladies even going to make that possible?

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09-09-2010 at 9:39 PM

3ltlones Joined on 05-27-2009 Ohio 5,414 Posts 111,822 Points --> --> actually, it's not inappropriate.  Maybe some didn't feel that your apology was sincere and I think it's up to each individual to decide whether it felt sincere to them or not.  Plus, you have to remember that there is a  TON of lurking on these boards, people find drama interesting and that was drama. I think it absolutely would have been possible for you to come back and post again, most people, if not all would have gotten over it. You gave your apology post a few hours to sink in.......then deleted. In my opinion that's what's inappropriate.

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09-09-2010 at 9:43 PM

Graciestar Joined on 04-06-2010 1,258 Posts 25,550 Points --> --> Once again, no one is responding. Okay, I get it. I am sure all you bitters are PM eachother saying not to respond to get me to leave. FIne you win. I will leave gladly leave a very bitter BUt really, I dont want to deal with your negative energy. have a nice life.

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09-09-2010 at 9:46 PM

3ltlones Joined on 05-27-2009 Ohio 5,414 Posts 111,822 Points --> --> Seriously, what is your problem?  I'm really curious.  I am honestly nice to everyone but this is getting ridiculous.  If you have that much of a problem with everyone here and everyone being so bitter and negative then don't deal with it anymore.  It's just silly that you post stuff like this on a daily basis.  You are the one who originally came and started calling names(yes bitter is name calling) and then you're getting upset when people respond because they are offended and bothered by what you said.

My Blog Baby DD(8)DD(5)DS(2y) July 2006, lost a baby at 8 weeks, natural miscarriage , May 2009 lost Zoe Eliana at 16wks 4days no reason known, possible under developed organs. Lost two more babies in September 2009 at 7 wks 4 days. Had myomectomy surgery to remove a large fibroid in November 2009. BFP 6/15/10 please stick baby

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09-09-2010 at 9:47 PM

noah-bear Joined on 03-28-2009 Kansas 10,528 Posts 237,811 Points --> --> Graciestar: Once again, no one is responding. Okay, I get it. I am sure all you bitters are PM eachother saying not to respond to get me to leave. FIne you win. I will leave gladly leave a very bitter BUt really, I dont want to deal with your negative energy. have a nice life.   That's a good way to make a "fresh start".

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09-09-2010 at 9:48 PM

bbhalphen Joined on 06-19-2009 Louisiana 6,122 Posts 116,630 Points --> --> Everyone gets more views than replies!  We have a lot of sick lurkers that like to take lookie-loos at our bitter misery.

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09-09-2010 at 9:58 PM

toddandjul... Joined on 06-03-2008 Michigan 4,244 Posts 84,017 Points --> --> Just to re-cap... First you call us bitter and say that's the reason for any and all of our fertility issues Then you post like nothing ever happened, no apology, no nothing and you got called out Then you make several negative comments directly to a few women on this board Then you post an apology (5 minutes after above comments) Then you DD it and the post you got called out in Then, you come back saying you DD'd because there were too many views and not enough replies and you felt slighted Then, you pull the bitter card....again.   I don't believe your apology was sincere because you were just insulting people a few minutes prior to it and you deleted it.  And really, you were insulted by views and not posts?  There are lurkers on all the boards and many who like drama, not to mention that people might read a post more than once.  That was nothing about you.  And the bachelor pad post, I've seen it or heard of it, so why would I comment?  You're telling us to drop it, but clearly you were so upset that you had to DD two posts.  So you continue to create issues, and aren't dropping it yourself. I pretty much think you're nuts at this point.  And you keep insulting us and clearly have issues with us, so just leave the damn board.  But of course, you'll stick around because clearly you get off on creating drama.

TTC #1 since June 2009 BFP #1 09.26.09 mmc disc. at 10w2d D&C 11.16.09 BFP #2 02.15.10 mmc disc. at 7w5d D&C 03.19.10 (Our little girl, Trisomy 16) ~ ~ ~ BFP #3 08.23.10 Grow, baby t&j, grow! Our blessing is due 05.04.2011 TTCAL Buddy to my lovelies - HeatherPB1020 (BFP!!) and eminbmore

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09-09-2010 at 10:02 PM

jennsadye1... Joined on 12-02-2007 Ontario, Canada 2,569 Posts 48,300 Points --> --> [|-). OMG get over yourself. You said stupid offensive stuff on several posts, then made a half assed apology after being told you should apologize (which as "sincere" you claim it is, rings false), then DD. Pardon me if we don't all trip over ourselves to welcome you back. FWIW, no, I do not watch The Bachelor, I hate that show. seriously I would rather watch a cat hack up a hairball.

BFP #1 08-21-2009 Missed Miscarriage at 12 wks D&C 10-19-09 BFP #2 03-23-10 Redford Jay~Born Sleeping due to PPROM at 21 Weeks~07/19/2010 The little boy made for me in the stars.

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09-09-2010 at 10:06 PM

bbhalphen Joined on 06-19-2009 Louisiana 6,122 Posts 116,630 Points --> --> Ooh...I believe you have officially turned into a troll.

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09-09-2010 at 10:06 PM

eminbmore Joined on 02-08-2003 Live: Eastern Shore, MD Wedding: Bahamas 8,586 Posts 183,849 Points --> --> This post makes my head hurt.

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09-09-2010 at 10:14 PM

Graciestar Joined on 04-06-2010 1,258 Posts 25,550 Points --> --> No, it was not just regular lurkers. It was ladies who were full aware of my recent posts...And a b!tchy move. But I would expect nothing more. Coming from a whole bunch of b!tchy bitters on this board.

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09-09-2010 at 10:17 PM

mdm2137 Joined on 04-28-2006 OH 4,959 Posts 92,205 Points --> --> Graciestar: No, it was not just regular lurkers. It was ladies who were full aware of my recent posts...And a b!tchy move. But I would expect nothing more. Coming from a whole bunch of b!tchy bitters on this board.     And you know this...how? Get over yourself. LET.IT.GO.

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09-09-2010 at 10:19 PM

Graciestar Joined on 04-06-2010 1,258 Posts 25,550 Points --> --> mdm2137: Graciestar: No, it was not just regular lurkers. It was ladies who were full aware of my recent posts...And a b!tchy move. But I would expect nothing more. Coming from a whole bunch of b!tchy bitters on this board.     And you know this...how? Get over yourself. LET.IT.GO.     You are all a whole bunch of bitters. I was right along. But news flash, this board is full of negative engery. Negative engery is not gonna help get you KU. Have a nice life, B!tches.

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09-09-2010 at 10:19 PM

bbhalphen Joined on 06-19-2009 Louisiana 6,122 Posts 116,630 Points --> --> Graciestar: No, it was not just regular lurkers. It was ladies who were full aware of my recent posts...And a b!tchy move. But I would expect nothing more. Coming from a whole bunch of b!tchy bitters on this board.     I can admit that I've clicked on this post by itself 5 or 6 times to see what everyone else wrote.  I have some very entertaining bumpie friends.  And as for lurkers--if you go to the MC/PL board, you can see how many sick fvcks like to lurk.  Get over yourself.

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09-09-2010 at 10:21 PM

mdm2137 Joined on 04-28-2006 OH 4,959 Posts 92,205 Points --> --> <STRON

bbhalphen

Leave the bitters in peace.

jillcanada

I've been MIA since my introduction on here because of work, and just got caught up  on this thread. I'm so sorry you lovely ladies had to go through this. I think you are strong, compassionate, and have great integrity. Let's hope the drama has died.

lsugirljen

I don't post much over here and I'm going to apologize for the ticker. But I am so sorry you have to deal with people like this.  You are all AWESOME. 

JuJuBe3

OMG, my post has like 30 views and only 3 replies.  How can I go on?

 

 

AGFaso

I read her posts and I'm so confused as to where it all came from..."She was such a nice girl..."

jillcanada

AGFaso:

I read her posts and I'm so confused as to where it all came from..."She was such a nice girl..."

As an educator I always wonder what's going on in a kid's life for them to be behaving they way there at the time. Hmmmm...it seems from what I've read that perhaps TTCAL has just simply broken her; however, this does not give the license to be a ________________.

surfergirlkona

R.I.P. Graciestars R.I.P.

TheGregory's07

I am so sorry that you ladies are having to deal with her.

TravelinMama

----> Graciestar:Once again, no one is responding. Okay, I get it. I am sure all you bitters are PM eachother saying not to respond to get me to leave. FIne you win. I will leave gladly leave a very bitter BUt really, I dont want to deal with your negative energy. have a nice life.Really??? I didn't see your apology, and I lurk here every day, and post here and there when I feel I can provide support to those that are still here from when I was. You didn't even give any one a chance to see your apology OR this post (which hasn't been up that long) before you DD and started going off on your little tangent.  Give people some time to wake up before you start crying no one is responding. Maybe people have a life outside of TB and need to work and can't see the post right away or respond. Stop being a a whiney little b*tch. 

Aubs13

toddandjulie:

OMG, my post has like 30 views and only 3 replies.  How can I go on?

I'd love to help you through this, but I'm bitter and therefore, unable to get KU.  I can't offer support. 

Court1

Yep, I'm bitter & full of pisssy negative energy.  That's why my OB gave me Clomid. It usually helps with bitterness.  I think IUI, IVF, injectibles, & other fun IF procedures do to.  Twatwaffle.

ShellShockedMama

It's not that I'm bitter, it's that you're a _fuckinwhoretwatwaffle and I don't like you. 

There IS a difference.