TTC After a Loss

just feeling blech.

Hi,

  So, I went to the RE to start IUI again yest..  Just great.  I get AF on Sat. of Labor Day weekend.  So, I can't call RE until Tuesday, at that pt. I'm already on CD4.  I go in Wed. The nurse tells me to come in, but not sure if he'll cycle me this month or wait because he usually starts on day 3 and I'm already on day 5.  My body just won't friggen cooperate with me!

Anyhoo, doc gives me green light and here we go again.  I also ask him of the results of the genetic testing (I forgot when I was last there in July) and he told me baby had triploidy (extra set of chromosomes).  He said my body did what it was supposed to and m/c.  Of course I'm thinking really?  B/c I had no bleeding, signs, etc. Now of course I'm worried if it happens again.  He said very unlikely.  Huh? Stats are always in my favor the wrong way (unexplained IF, m/c, etc.).  RE actually told me at one point we just had bad luck and that's all it was. He is confident he will get me ku with my take home baby.

So, after being on the phone with insurance, pharmacy, etc. yest. half the day (boy was that fun), finally got my injects and started (FUN again).  Craptastic day at work the last 2 days and of course after my shot tonight I decide to check my work email and boy, why did I do that???  Now, I'm all upset as I know there's going to be a sh**storm tomorrow.  I really don't want to go in, but I have to.  At least it's Friday. 

Someone told me once, if you want to hear god laugh, make plans.  Boy is that true!!!  If you've made it this far, I am shocked.  Thanks for letting me vent.  Things can't get worse, can they??  I swear I would just cry, but I am so exhausted I just don't even have it in me.

*SAIF* always welcome
TTC since October 2007
Dx with Unexplained IF
IUI #1-3 w/clomid: Jan-March 2010...BFN
IUI #4 w/injectables: April 2010...BFP
1st u/s: 5/17-one little perfect hb@7w2d, 2nd u/s: 6/5-no hb@10w;
missed miscarriage: 6/10 d&c
IUI #5-7 w/injectables: Sept 2010-Jan 2011...BFFN
IVF #1: Feb/March 2011...pretty please let this work!!!!

Expecting twin boys!!!!! Pregnancy Ticker

Re: just feeling blech.

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  • ((((Hugs)))) Hope tomorrow is much less craptastic than you're expecting.
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  • I'm really sorry and I hope tomorrow is not as bad as it seems.  At least it's Friday and you will have the weekend to look forward to. 

    I am curious - so is your RE not open on the weekends?  What about if you have to have an IUI then or you need CD specific bloodwork?  My RE is open every day of the year except Christmas.  Every weekend and every major and minor holiday - like I said they are only closed on Christmas Day.  So I can call them any day of the week.  Now they are only there in the mornings on the weekends, but I can still get them or leave a message and they would call back the next day  That is really terrible that you had to wait 2 days to talk to someone. 

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  • I had a pretty craptastic week last week, and it got better. I hope your day/week does too.

    I'm so sorry for all you've gone through. Big hugs!

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    I'm really sorry and I hope tomorrow is not as bad as it seems.  At least it's Friday and you will have the weekend to look forward to. 

    I am curious - so is your RE not open on the weekends?  What about if you have to have an IUI then or you need CD specific bloodwork?  My RE is open every day of the year except Christmas.  Every weekend and every major and minor holiday - like I said they are only closed on Christmas Day.  So I can call them any day of the week.  Now they are only there in the mornings on the weekends, but I can still get them or leave a message and they would call back the next day  That is really terrible that you had to wait 2 days to talk to someone. 

    Hi.  I'm sorry I didn't respond until now.  I have been off the computer the last couple days.  An RE is only in the office on a weekend for a scheduled IUI/IVF.  I have had an IUI fall on a Sat. and I was seen by a different RE and the office is completely desolate.  It's so weird.  There is a separate phone number for nights/weekends etc. for emergencies but I didn't want to call it as it wasn't an emergency.  I'm jealous of your RE's great hours.Big Smile 

    *SAIF* always welcome
    TTC since October 2007
    Dx with Unexplained IF
    IUI #1-3 w/clomid: Jan-March 2010...BFN
    IUI #4 w/injectables: April 2010...BFP
    1st u/s: 5/17-one little perfect hb@7w2d, 2nd u/s: 6/5-no hb@10w;
    missed miscarriage: 6/10 d&c
    IUI #5-7 w/injectables: Sept 2010-Jan 2011...BFFN
    IVF #1: Feb/March 2011...pretty please let this work!!!!

    Expecting twin boys!!!!! Pregnancy Ticker
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